ok so I'm just gonna jump right in I HATE when people touch my hair. I have curly hair and I like to wear it down a lot of the time and I like my hair and I love my curls, but some people think that just HAVING curly hair means you can touch it NO GET YOUR SWEATY DAMP DISGUSTING HANDS OFF ME!!!11!!! AND THE WORST PART IS IVE TOLD THEM TO STOP MULTIPLE TIMES!!!!1!!11111
I told them I wanted to cut it for my birthday because its literally tomorrow when I'm writing this and they said "nooo I love your hair it's so pretty and curly" and proceeded to pet me like a dog like and I said "please stop petting me and it's not like I'm get my head shaved I'm just cutting it so I'll feel more gender neutral" (for context I'm gender fluid and am very feminine) AND THIS BITCH RESPONDED WITH "well your mom gets to touch your hair"... SHES MY MOM I CAME OUT OF HER I DONT GIVE A SHIT ABOUT HER TOUCHING MY HAIR CAUSE SHE ASKED ME YEARS AGO WHEN MY HAIR GOT CURLY YOU DIDNT ohhh hohoh but that's not the fucking end she continues talking about how I shouldn't get my haircut and pets me and touchs me and whines on and on until finally my mom pry's her away from me omg I was so thankful that I legit nearly got on my knees and worshipped my mom like a god I was so uncomfortable and then my sister got involved and she made sure that a clear boundary was set. I don't know if shell respect it or not, but I do know that my fucking sister and mom are gonna go off if she doesn't. also, i was resisting the urge to fucking lose it on her cause I'm tired of this bullshit man.
thank you for those who listened to my rant ❤️ edit: i still hate it and my hair is cut now and it pisses her off 😊
