1. People can heal themselves using your energy—they can absorb your healing energy, light, and love. Without proper boundaries, they can drain you. It's essential to limit yourself. Remember, you healed yourself for your own sake, not for theirs. Don't let them take away your power, light, and love. You are one of the few people they can fully be themselves around, and because they trust you, they are drawn to you. If someone doesn't deserve your energy or time, or if they wronged you, their karma will be feeling the void after you leave. You are their light, and when you cut them off, they will remain in their darkness, continually desiring you.
2. When your parents tell you how you should act or what you should be doing, and you stand up for yourself instead of cooperating, they might weaponize statements like, "I raised you; you should be grateful." Remember, your parents did the bare minimum—they did what they were supposed to do. This might be why you tend to accept the bare minimum from others. The more you accept the bare minimum, the more you reinforce it. Change what you accept. It's called the bare minimum for a reason.
3. If you constantly say "yes" to things, even out of kindness, you allow those things to access your energy. If you don't say "no" occasionally, you will lack the energy to say "yes" to what truly matters. Be honest and say "no" when something isn't important or when you genuinely want to decline.
4. Remember, your spouse or partner loves you for who you truly are. Your siblings love you because you are their sibling, and your parents love you because you are their child. These are forms of conditional love. However, in a healthy relationship, the love is unconditional.
5. You have to go through an uncomfortable phase to learn something new. Initially, you won't be perfect—no one is. With persistence and discipline, your mind will adapt to the new information, and your body will retain it through muscle memory.
6. Stop sugarcoating things. Be raw and authentically yourself. Whatever that looks like—if your spirit is fire, then speak with that holy fire. If others don't hold back from lying, why should you hold back from telling the truth?
7. If everything is made of energy and energy can neither be created nor destroyed, then everything already exists in an energetic and vibrational state. Recognize that this truth is the secret to manifestation. When you desire something, it already belongs to you on an energetic plane. By experiencing its energy and feeling it, you possess it. Feel the reality of what you want and stay in that feeling until it manifests in your reality.
8. Be mindful of whom you argue with, as you must protect your peace at all costs. It's worthwhile to resolve conflicts with those who misunderstand you accidentally, but not with those who intentionally choose to misunderstand you. These people are committed to their misconceptions and don't want to be proven wrong; they believe they are clever for "figuring you out" and cling to their assumptions. With such individuals, protect your peace by remaining silent or leaving them. Your absence will hurt them more, serving as their karma for misunderstanding you.
9. Stepping into your power will trigger those who haven't embraced their own. Don't take it personally. They project their suffering onto you because you remind them of their limitations and disempowerment. Your soul constantly communicates with you, guiding you through your interests, desires, and what feels good. Follow your passions. When something no longer brings you joy, stop doing it. Shift and flow like water.
10. If you have what is called "pretty privilege," are energetically attractive, or are a natural-born leader, your presence can trigger insecurities and make others uncomfortable. This is why some people want to keep you down. Don't make yourself small to make others feel comfortable; it achieves nothing. Instead, people will try to overpower you even more. Stand up for yourself and be authentically you. This genuine energy will attract everything you desire.
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