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Red flags

If he tells you he's not good enough for you, believe him. He isn't. You deserve better. Red flag.

If he has more money than you do - ask yourself what you'd do if he went bankrupt tomorrow. If you hesitate - red flag.

If he doesn't care of his health, eat well, quit bad habits, work out so he can sit on the floor when he's 80 and play with your grandchildren - red flag.

If he's in a relationship and flirting with you, his girl is the last person you'd wanna switch places with. Trust me. Red flag.

If he has no ambitions or goals, if you don't admire him and look up to him as a person - red flag.

If he makes you feel uncomfortable for not having s3x with him as often or in the way he'd prefer. If he tells you it's your job. If he makes a fuss about it - Red flag.

If you keep breaking up and getting back together - red flag.

If he loves you in the way he's comfortable loving and not in the way that makes YOU feel loved even after you've taught him - red flag.

If he can't do or decide anything big without his mom - red flag.

If he fights with your family instead of keeping the peace - red flag.

Bros overs hoes is always the way to go.

The only way to get over an asshole is finding a new one and reminding yourself that at some point you'll accidentally find someone who is pure love, for real, not the toxic kind and you'll appreciate every accident, mistake and coincidence that brought you together. Everyday bad day, every asshole. They will all look like a crazy joke. The past will finally be in the past and you will finally be at peace.