Some good vodka with fresca conbined can really open up the mind. Apart from usual tension relief for the body muscles and undule focus in the daily life, I had one epiphany, the one view I hadn't dwell on up until current stage of my life.
When we were young, we invariably at some points in life that traumatized and we just adopt a way of resign to the world. Especially the blow or animosity arrived on regular basis. We want to distance ourselves to the pain. We become passive on things to avoid these unpleasant feelings.
But a few of them, somehow they overcome this obstacles or develop a mechanism of defense, subsequently take a active posture to life----constantly bring changes to themselves and people surrounding them.
They no longer being harnessed by their childhood hindrance. They moved on and forever leave those behind. They focus on things that can bring benefit instantly, acting recklessly without regard to other people's displease. But what they finally bring and present will dissipate any discontent.
So the yearning for changes to the still life is rooted in the heart of human beings. Under the security of daily routines, they are sensitive to anything new. Thus becomes popular the gossips of any kind, the traveling to see other people's different lifestyles in different cultures. If these are not attainable right away, little kind gestures, little gifts, little jokes or funny moments which is variant to the life can be very catalytic.
And the people who brings them, are to shacles-free people.
Abovementioned is focused on the practical side. To bring visible change to the world, to venture you and people with you to a beneficial new situation.
But now is about the way of viewing things.
The world surrounding us is mostly fragmented, uninspiring. Thus begging the way of looking it in a systematic way. Death, on its own is frightening, so what if we also look at bigger picture that, together with life fulfilled, it won't be as much horrible idea.
So can be true when looking at any unbearable points in life. Darkness and light, high and low, yin and yang etc. Human world starts with random unorganized condition to live. And they invent and discover all kinds of systems to shap our civilized life. Even random facts being grouped together as an inspiring story is an better effort to pass easier time.
This is one art of life.
