Can You Relate?

You wish you were perfect (girls)

When you feel like your just not good enough:

girls feel like they have to please EVERYONE and yes ALL girls feel this way. There are those who show that they do and then there are those who try to cover it but everyone knows the truth. It's normal to do this as a girl, you feel like you have to do these thing s to get the noun you want. Yeah that's right! I said noun! no matter if it's a person place or thing you will do anything to please it to get your way. You pick and poke at yourself to become someone your not

WEIGHT: As a female this is a HUGE!!!! issues. your small, tall, fat, skinny, medium, fit, lean, puggy, round, thick, big bone. No matter what you call it YOUR A HUMAN at the end of the day. So stop judging yourself based on what others think of you! if you don't like that your bigger than most either work hard on yourself to please you. did you hear what I said to please YOU!!!!! not him, her, he , she .IT! but YOU! if you like it keep it! if everyone was skinny there would be no variety!!! If your skinny and you want to gain weight either eat, or get over it!! many girls die to have that image. SO take it in and be thankful that you are what you are

HAIR: Now look, your hair is straight, nappy, curly, long, short, medium, spiky, wavy, blah,blah,blah! My goodness! If it was my choice everyone would be bald! Just because of how much I hear "omg, look at her hair such a disaster!" or  "lol! bad hair day much?" Just stop!!!!! you were born with what you were born with! So deal with it, all these chemicals?? I understand you want it a certain way but look yourself once in a while it doesn't hurt. And usually you'll be more pleased with you if you just be YOU

IN ALL APPEARENCE: and girls i'm talking about clothes, shoes, jewelry, make up, smell, smile, and most of all PERSONALITY. Here's what's up, i'm going to make this short and sweet. ONLY WEAR WHAT YOU CAN AFFORD. who cares about all the flashy shimmer shit and logos. Don't get wrapped up in a fantasy that you have to do and wear certain things to be the "it" girl. Same with the shoes and jewelry make up, etc. Then there comes smell. Look for all of you girls who take showers and like to smell good, THANK YOU! (just lay low on strong smells they can be too much sometimes) But for those girls who like to go natural -_- i'm going to need you to invest in a shower cause that's not cute. No matter what type of person you are it's nasty to smell that way. Especially if you are a young lady, it's just unacceptable. Now, personality there's nothing to say except BE YOURSELF. I don't believe in the word fake when I comes to people. If someone says one thing and goes back and tells someone else something different, to me that's not fake. It's just them, that's how their personality is. They just like spreading drama, there's nothing wrong with that (unless you not ready to fight about it when someone confronts you)

thank you for read :) and stay true to you and no one else