My dearest friends

You are not hard to love.

How many times have you doubted your own worth? How often have you questioned whether you deserve to be loved?

It's so easy to fall into the trap of thinking you're too complicated, too damaged, too unworthy of affection. But let tell you, you are not hard to love - let that sink in.

We all have our scars, our baggage, our moments of doubt. We all have parts ourselves that we wish were different. But those imperfections, those quirks, they are what make you unique.

They are what make you, you

And you are deserving of love just as you are.

When you look in mirror, you might see flaws. You might see someone who is too difficult, too messy, too broken. But those who truly care for you see beyond that. They see your strength, your kindness, your bravery. They see someone who is capable of great love and deserving of it in return.

You are not hard to love. You are not a burden. You are not too much.

The right people will cherish you for who you are, not in spite of it. They will embrace your whole self, the good and the bad, the easy and the challenging. Love is not about perfection. It's about finding someone who sees your worth and makes you valued. It's about recognizing that you are worthy of love, not because you perfect, but because you are perfectly human.

So the next time you doubt yourself, remember this: you are not hard to love.

You are worthy of love and affection just as you are. Let that sink in, and let it change the way you see yourself. You are deserving of love, and one day, someone will show just how easy it is to love you because love isn't supposed to be hard, and no one is too hard to love.

You aren't difficult to love. You aren't too needy or too much. You're just not for everyone. And that's okay. It's human and it's normal. Every person on the planet has parts of who they are that are unattractive and unacceptable to certain people. But each of us also embodies traits and qualities that make us perfect for someone else.

Every person is someone's idea of "hard to love." Each of us has struggles and pieces of our story that don't frighten certain people and wouldn't push them away.

Pieces that make us exactly what they're looking for and histories that never make them question our lovability or worth. And that counts for something. No matter how many people find you difficult to love, there will always be others who feel like they've struck gold. And no matter how many turn away, I hope you can trust that there's nothing wrong with who you are. That your needs are valid.

That you're inherently lovable and worthy of relationships that don't hurt.

You're not for everyone, and this doesn't have to be a bad thing. You're rare and resilient and have gifts to offer that can't be replicated. You know who you are and what you need, and you shouldn't ever have to settle for people who love you poorly.

There is better love out there waiting. There are people better suited to hold your heart. People you haven't met yet who will make you forget that you ever doubted your value.

People who will laugh when they hear you say you're difficult to love. And if you haven't found them yet, you will. Keep holding out.

The love you're waiting for is coming so let go of the past and prepare for the future.