SOHINI POV
My aunt used to date my uncle when I was around three and four years old, and I used to ho visit his place ,so I was quite close to him (uncle)
I had really in depth conversation about lovelife and boyfriends with him when I was in school, so he knew everything about me......
My faith and trust in him as grown as a result of the small things I told him .
He knows about my academic background because he is also my teacher.One day, during a chemistry lesson, my uncle, who was also my teacher, did something that made me feel uneasy. As we were studying, he gently caressed my lips with his finger and said, "Your lips are so soft." I felt a shiver run down my spine, and my heart skipped a beat. His touch and words made me feel uncomfortable, but I didn't know how to react.
At the time, I thought his comment was a kind gesture, a compliment. I didn't realize that his behavior was inappropriate, that it was crossing a boundary. I was young and naive, and I didn't know what was considered acceptable behavior from a teacher or an uncle.
Looking back, I realize that I made a mistake by ignoring that act. I should have spoken up, told him that his behavior made me uncomfortable, or reported it to someone I trusted. But I didn't. I let it slide, thinking it was no big deal.
Not realizing the significance of that moment, I continued to trust him, to see him as a mentor and a confidant. But, in hindsight, that was my first mistake. I should have been more aware, more vigilant. I should have recognized the warning signs, the red flags.
That moment, though small, was the beginning of a series of events that would change my life forever. It was the start of a journey that would lead me to question everything I thought I knew about trust, boundaries, and relationships.
My uncle was also aware of my dream to become a model. He would often make comments that I should try to look more sexy and attractive. He would suggest that I should enhance certain body parts to make them appear bigger and more curvaceous, specifically mentioning that I should have thicker thighs. At the time, I didn't fully understand the implications of his words or the underlying intentions behind them.
I was still young and immature, and I didn't grasp the concept of sexualization or objectification. I didn't realize that his comments were inappropriate and potentially harmful. I thought he was just trying to offer advice or guidance, so I ignored his suggestions, thinking they were harmless.
However, in hindsight, I recognize that ignoring his comments was my second mistake. I should have spoken up, asked questions, or sought clarification on why he was making such suggestions. I should have been more cautious.
Yes , that commentade me feel uncomfortable, but I didn't know how to address them. I should have trusted my instincts and spoken up, rather than ignoring the discomfort and uncertainty. By ignoring his comments, I inadvertently allowed the behavior to continue, and it potentially opened the door for further inappropriate actions.
As I ignored that tiny occurance, the incidents became grater and grater..............
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When Trust Shatters
Non-FictionTrapped in a web of trust and betrayal, Sohini's life was irrevocably altered when the person she confided in became her worst fear. Her mother's sister's husband, a guy she loved and trusted, broke her innocence, leaving her with lifelong scars. In...