From love to letting go

Chapter 7: A New Beginning

Steps Taken Towards Healing and Recovery 

After everything I went through, I eventually managed to escape the trap of living in the past andholding on to what was no longer mine. The process of healing and recovery was neither quicknor easy, but it was profoundly transformative. One of the most important steps I took wasexpressing myself through writing and drawing. For the past two years, I have been travelingsolo to different places, meeting new people, and learning a great deal about life. Each journeywas a step toward understanding myself better and healing the wounds left by the past.

One of the best things that happened to me during this time was discovering the Bhagavad Gita.This holy book contains some of the greatest lines I have ever come across, offering timelesswisdom and guidance. Reading it not from a religious perspective but from a desire tounderstand life better was incredibly enlightening. The Bhagavad Gita taught me the importanceof living in the present and letting go of the past. I encourage anyone going through difficulttimes to read it for the profound life lessons it offers. 

Traveling to places like Kashi and Rishikesh, which hold deep historical and spiritualsignificance, became a pivotal part of my healing journey. These places are now very close tomy heart. The act of traveling, meeting new people, and experiencing different cultures helpedme move on and heal in ways I never imagined. Even though I was often alone, I felt truly alivefor the first time in years.

This year, I fulfilled a childhood dream by buying a bike, which I named Black Pearl. Riding it tovarious places reminded me why I should be living life to the fullest. The key to healing, Irealized, is not a secret formula but a personal journey that involves asking yourself the hardquestions and developing a strong mindset. You have to decide whether you truly want to healand move forward. For two years, I struggled with understanding why I wasn't moving on. Butonce I accepted that life happens for a reason and that you cannot escape its challenges, Ibegan to see the importance of living in the present without high expectations for the future.

The Bhagavad Gita has a powerful quote: "You have the right to perform your duty, but you arenot entitled to the fruits of your actions." This taught me to focus on my efforts rather thanobsessing over the results. It is a reminder that life is meant to be lived in the present moment.Your mind can be your best friend or your worst enemy, so it is crucial to build a strong mindsetto achieve anything you want in life. 

Rediscovering Yourself and Your Passions 

Rediscovering myself and my passions was a significant part of my journey toward healing. Asan artist, I found solace in my creativity. Drawing and painting allowed me to process myemotions and express what words could not. Each piece of art was a step toward reclaiming myidentity and rebuilding my confidence. I also revisited activities and hobbies that I had enjoyedbefore the relationship, finding joy in them once again.

Traveling became another passion. Exploring new places and experiencing different culturesprovided me with a sense of adventure and freedom. It was during these travels that I metpeople who shared their stories and wisdom, helping me gain new perspectives on life and myown experiences. 

As Aristotle wisely said, "The energy of the mind is the essence of life." By channeling mymental energy into my passions and interests, I found a renewed sense of purpose and vitality. Ilearned to appreciate the beauty in small moments and to find joy in simple pleasures. 

The Bhagavad Gita also emphasizes the importance of self-realization: "One who sees inactionin action, and action in inaction, is intelligent among men." This quote resonated with me as Ibegan to understand the balance between doing and being, and the importance of mindfulliving. 

Hopes and Dreams for the Future 

Looking toward the future, I do so with a sense of hope and optimism, rooted in faith rather thanexpectation. I've learned that having faith in life is more empowering than merely hoping for acertain outcome. My dreams for the future are grounded in the lessons I've learned aboutresilience, self-love, and living authentically.

For now, I focus on working on myself, learning new skills, and pursuing my passions. I go forlong rides on my bike and paint in my free time. I'm also dedicated to developing my startupideas, turning my dreams into actionable goals. 

The Bhagavad Gita teaches us, "Set thy heart upon thy work, but never on its reward." This hasbeen a guiding principle for me, reminding me to stay committed to my path without gettingcaught up in the end results. Dreams remain dreams unless they are backed by clear goals andpersistent effort.

To anyone reading this, I want to share a strong message: healing is a journey, not adestination. Embrace the process, and don't rush it. Rediscover your passions, live in thepresent, and have faith in the journey ahead. Remember the wisdom of the Bhagavad Gita:"The mind is restless and difficult to restrain, but it is subdued by practice.

In closing, I want to leave you with a quote from Aristotle that has guided me through mydarkest times: "Happiness depends upon ourselves." Embrace your power to shape your ownhappiness, and forge a path that is uniquely yours. Life is full of challenges and setbacks, but itis also filled with endless possibilities. Trust in your journey, and live each day with purpose andgratitude