Just like a solicitor, you win some, you lose some. This card indicates a time when the battle (legal or otherwise) has been lost, despite that you’ve given it your best shot. At this point, you’ve done all you could have done: negotiated, shared your position, made changes, attempted compromise. However, there is still a sense of defeat.
You are Your Own Best Solicitor Now in Terms of Navigating Problems
You’ve faced this challenge bravely, and it will be an important lesson for you going forward in regard to your ability to gracefully accept what cannot be changed. Unfortunately, someone has an interest in seeing your defeat, mostly due to their own envy and insecurity. The best thing you can do at this point is to move on to where you are appreciated, valued, and cherished — distancing yourself from the current situation. Embody the ethos of a solicitor. Stay personally held back from what is happening as much as you can.
Today you may feel embarrassed, drained, and even betrayed by the situation. The arguing, bullying, and disputes have really taken their toll on your well-being. It’s tough to admit there’s nothing else you can do, aside from accepting the situation and moving forward. You’ve made your stand and ultimately it’s the other person’s loss.
Now that you see there is no end in sight and the conflict is nothing but a dead-end, you will be able to move forward without second-guessing yourself. Acknowledge how hard your solicitor spirit has fought, and try to see the peace that comes with surrender rather than thinking of walking away from the situation as defeat. You’re simply wiser and know this conflict is no longer worth your time and energy.
