RELATABLE??

F.R.I.E.N.D.S

Hey people
Hope you all good
Thank you for staying tuned, and special thanks to that one person who keeps asking me for chapter 3. So, let's begin this.

Sometimes It feels really bad, doesn't it, when your own people fail to understand you? It feels really bad when your own people turn away from you. It feels really bad when your own people leave you and give priority to others. This is life. You know what ,in life, we give priority to those who never prioritize us, and those people always leave us and give priority to others. On the other hand, the ones who do give us priority, who want to talk to us, who wait for our one message, we never even look back at them. They prioritize us, but we prioritize someone else, and that person prioritizes yet another person. I believe strongly in karma, and it is said that in this age of Kalyug, people will face the consequences of their actions in this very lifetime; they won't have to wait for the next birth to receive the results of their deeds. I also feel that what we do comes back to us in some way.

I am about to start part 3 of my Relatable chapter, which will focus on the theme of friendship. I have been blessed with wonderful friends who, with just one call, show up at my house to surprise me. They value even the smallest things about me, care for every little detail, look after me, and find joy in seeing me happy. They love to surprise me with small gestures. I have found all of this in my friends
Whenever there's an issue, we'll call them for suggestions. Sometimes we might fight a lot, and sometimes, when we're in a bad mood, we'll call them to feel better.At every stage of life, we meet someone who helps us get through that particular phase. In childhood, it's our school friends, in college, it's our college mates, and in the office, it's our colleagues. At every stage, our friends change, but some memories are left behind, and certain moments remain that no one can ever replace.
The ones who met in school drifted apart after it ended. Those we met in college moved to different cities after placements.

The ones we met at work were left behind after changing jobs. So, who remains? That one particular friend, irrespective of being from college, school, or a colleague, who you still think of during tough times. The one who doesn't change with time, who doesn't alter their behavior based on the situation, who knows their boundaries, understands when to give time to their relationship and when to prioritize friendship. That's what they call a true friend.Running after relationships while neglecting friendships, or chasing friendships while ignoring relationships, leads to an imbalance, and such a person can never truly be happy. It’s disheartening to see when people give more importance to their friendships over their relationships. Maybe you've experienced this too, where a friend may have hurt you by prioritizing their relationship over your friendship. Yes, I’ve done it as well—I've hurt my friends for the sake of my relationship.

But as they say, karma hits hard. Today, someone has chosen their friendship over me, and it hurts. But I realize, like I said before, what you do is what you get in return. None of this may feel like the ultimate truth, but it's something that you can relate to. I hope you're able to process and let go of these things because, at some point, these situations must have happened to you as well. Maybe you’ve done this to someone too.

Anyway, we’ve had enough serious talk; now let me tell you about who spoiled me. There's always that one person in your life who explains the double meanings behind everything. Remember when you were studying the reproduction chapter in 10th grade, and that friend sitting next to you was cracking up while trying to explain it to you? You had no clue because you were just so oblivious. Seriously, I was so clueless!

We all have those friends who talk and teach us those double meaning jokes All the knowledge of that stuff I have today, I owe to my friends. You all must be having those kinds of friends. They are gems trust me.
One friend I met in school and another I met in college—these two deserve special credit..

Imagine a friend writing a poem on you , for you , gives you a sweet little name, imagine a friend who always likes to surprise you, who always take care of you and your problem, a friend who likes to listen, a friend who shows interest and excitement in your small little talks

हसने की बात न बी हो तब भी वो जोर जोर से हसे
रोते समय तुम ् हे DRAMA QUEEN  कहने की बजाए तुमरे आंसू पोछे

Yes there are some people who do these gesture. People say that every person who does something for you, hides some motive behind that deed but

यार हो गए कोई मकसद उनका वो तो बाद की बात है
अभी जो वक्त कट रहा है उसमे भी कुछ कमाल की बात है

I don't want to end this chapter. I have to because.....