Some people say the cutting is self inflicted. It many be physically but mentally it's not, it is the faults of people who many the person feel unwanted, and or that they don't deserve to live. It's the faults of the people who bully others for no good reason at all, the faults of people who abuse others mentally and physically.
What I'm trying to say here, is that self harming isn't necessarily self inflicted. People may think that the people that do it are mental, an outcast, that they don't want to be alive. Some times that's the case but other times it's not. Sometimes it's because the person holds in so much pain that they half to let it out but sometimes doing that isn't just crying your eyes out, sometimes it's self harm.
Self harm comes in many forms from drugs, to cutting, to alcohol abuse, to purposefully doing something to yourself or someone else that should be done. Cutting isn't the worst part of it.
Cutting goings from 1-2 shallow cuts and u think is over, but in reality it's not 1-2 turns into 10-20 and so on. The more u cut the deeper it gets the more it becomes an addiction. The more u cut the more u feel like u have to, and if u don't it's like torture because u can't get rid of the feeling that u need it, that u need to feel the pain, that u need to hurt yourself to make you feel better. It doesn't go away.
Your may expect it to eventually, but in reality it never a does. Everything turns into a weapon. Pencil sharpeners, pencils, paper, paper clips, and rulers. Anything can harm someone even fingernails can be used.
It doesn't matter who the person is. It could be the outcast of the school, the head cheerleader or captan of the football team. It could be the school player or the nicest boy that everyone goes to for help. It could be everyone because everyone has secrets and no wants to tell any of them.
When you ask if someone is ok, and there crying or having a panic or anxiety attack and they say there fine it could mean so many things, everything but that they actually are ok. What everyone doesn't seem to understand is that there are the people who talk about there problems none stop, when there actual problems aren't problems at all. Then there are the one that don't talk to anyone about there problems and help other people with there's, those people are the ones with the problems that actually matter. The ones that need help, the ones that fake smiles everyday so no one suspects anything. The ones that are slowly breaking more and more on the inside everyday.
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The Significants of Self Harm
De TodoI just had a thought that I wanted to write something and this is what came to my head. One by one the sentences formed and so on so forth my boring summery about self harm
