What the hell is the difference between bi and pan. If you are no you love both genders and pan is you love all. Boys and girls and transgender boys and girls and mixed genders I love them all. If you count yourself in a gender group you are in that gender and if you don't know what you are you are just both. So I am both pan and bi because there is little to no difference between them so if I am like this than I love for the heart not for your genitalia. You are you no matter what you are. We are all the same in some way and that way is we are all different from each other. <3