"That bossy little bitch can't control you. Remember that."
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yup, talking about bossy friends now. The ones that try to control everything, making sure everything is "perfect". But fail at, and do nothing but get on your nerves. No one in this world likes a bossy friend. We want a friend that helps us do the right decision, not choose everything for us without asking. How do I know? Because I had so many bossy friends to straighten up. Some of them I befriended, because she kept doing it anyway. So I was like, "bitch please. Bye Felicia." That thing is, you got to disobey them. Then you can tell them how you feel. Its your choice about how to confront them. You can do it mean, or you can nice and calm.
Here's two examples:
-Mean way-
You: So... What do we do Diane?
Diane: Okay, so the way I thought about it is (blah blah blah).
You: that's not.. What the group decided together..
Diane: I already did it for us. I have thr best idea anyway. Just do it, y'all idea is trashy...
You: Triggered Who said we liked your idea anyway?? Diane, you're my friend and I love you; but this is NOT going to happen all the time. Things can't always go your way. This is a group assignment, and that means we all make the decisions. Not just you.
<<whatever happens, depends on how you said it>>
-Nice way-
<<same scenario>>
You: Diane... Look we all have to make the decisions. Not just you. Let us do something too! We all already have the choices made by the other partners.
So.. Like being a bossy person isn't cool. If you're a bossy girl/boy, you need to stop. If you don't want to be hated then just stop being mean. It isn't always up to you to decide, it has to be other people too. You wouldn't like to be bossed around, now would you? Maybe because no one likes a bossy bitch.
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