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#3 Situations

Written on 27th February, 2016 at 1:19 AM

" Even in the worst of situations, even when it seems no one in the world appreciates you- as long as you have hope, everything can get better. "
- Chris Colfer

There are times in our life when we really don't have anyone despite having a million people around us. We don't really acknowledge anyone's presence. We feel like there's no person who's appropriate to deal with us in whatever situation we are.

When you have to talk about friendships, you want someone who would understand you with being offended, someone who would really try to connect with you and give you advices or maybe just simply listen to you. When you have to talk about love, you need someone who has been in love, who knows what it feels like to have butterflies in your stomach, who knows how your heartbeat rises and makes you feel your heart is about to come out of your chest. When it's about heartbreak, you would like to be around a person who's heart has been broken, who's trust has been taken shaken, who has been treated like a joke. When you are in a state of dilemma, you really need some person who can give you suggestions, without laughing at how confused you are. When you're a chaos, you want to have someone who can properly handle the beautiful mess that you are.

It's all about the situations, not you. You may like having cheerful people around you but when you need advice, cheerfulness won't help, right? The type of people we need is actually completely dependent on our position at that time. It's never about anything else.

But well, life is not a wish-granting factory ( TFIOS ) and hence, you cannot have a variety of people beside you. People who're in love leave you when you're heartbroken. People who want your money leave you when you're broke. People who have a simple life leave you when all you are is confused.

The point is, when you want to tell someone about your new crush, when you want to have friends to be crazy with, when you need a shoulder to cry on after your first break-up, when you want someone to calm you down, when you want someone to be excited for your birthday and to plan a surprise for you, when you want to share your personal problems with someone, when you want to hang out with someone who makes you feel good, you might NOT have anyone. So at that time, stay hopeful and make yourself the ideal person to be with in that situation. :)

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A/N: I'm back to writing finallyyy. Hope you liked this, wasn't very great but I guess it wasn't that bad either.
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