Relationship Advice

Chapter 3!

Do not change yourself for your partner!! if they really love you they love you they will embrace who you are not put you down. If your partner makes you feel like you need to change at all(unless its for the relationship and your life to be better).

DO NOT let your partner walk all over you. You need to put yourself in a high place, let them know you arent going to take shit from them because that can be a part of an abusive relationship. I was in an abusive relationship and i didnt even know it, i was happy and then in health we were doing pamphlets to put up around the school of signs of an abusive relationship and how to get help and i took a quiz to see if i had been in one based off of my previous relationship and it said if you scored five or higher that you were in a severe one....i got 21

its on a website called Loveisrespect.org and if you think you may be in one i highly recommend taking it , i never thought i was in one....i was just curious tbh

some "signs" arent all correct though but if you are worried dont hesitate to take the quiz, its called "Is My Relationship Healthy?"

they have others too like

"Can Abusers Change?"

"Am I A Good Partner?"

and "How Would You Help?"

they also have hotline numbers as well on the website and off, some are meant specifically for teens. also, abuse can happen to anyone, gender or sexuality doesn't matter. 

REMEMBER dont freak out if  think you might be in one, help is always there. And the most common forms are the non violent kinds we dont even noticed which can be talked about between you and your partner. just keep positive and if it doesnt work its for the best!

hey guys its torri!! this chapter was a lil more serious but im just looking out for you babes!! comment vote pm me!! ily all