The IDEAL MUSLIMAH [The True Islamic Personality of the Muslim Woman]

The Believing Woman is ALERT!

CHAPTER I - THE MUSLIM WOMAN AND HER RABB

The Believing Woman is ALERT!

One of the most prominent distinguishing features of the Muslim woman is her deep faith in Allaah, and her sincere conviction that whatever happens in this universe, and whatever fate befalls human beings, only happens through the will and decree of Allaah; whatever befalls a person could not have been avoided, and whatever does not happen to a person could not have been made to happen. A person has no choice in this life but to strive towards the right path and to do good deeds - acts of worship and other acts - by whatever means one can, putting all his trust in Allaah, submitting to His will, and believing that he is always in need of Allaah's help and support.
The story of Hajar offers the Muslim woman the most marvellous example of deep faith in Allaah and sincere trust in Him. Ibrahim, may Allaah exalt his mention, left her at the Ka'bah in Makkah, above the well of Zamzam, at a time when there were no people and no water in the place. Hajar had no-one with her except her infant son Isma'il. She asked Ibraaheem, calmly and with no trace of panic: "Has Allaah commanded you to do this, O Ibrahim?" Ibraaheem , sallallaahu 'alayhi wa sallam, said, "Yes." Her response reflected her acceptance and optimism: "Then He is not going to abandon us." Reported by Bukhaari in Kitaab al-Anbiya1 Here was an extremely difficult situation: a man left his wife and infant son in a barren land, where there were no plants, no water, and no people, and went back to the distant land of Palestine. He left nothing with her but a sack of dates and a skin filled with water. Were it not for the deep faith and trust in Allaah that filled Hajar's heart, she would not have been able to cope with such a difficult situation; she would have collapsed straight away, and would not have become the woman whose name is forever remembered night and day by those who perform Hajj and 'Umrah at the house of Allaah , every time they drink the pure water of Zamzam, and run between the mounts of Safa' and Marwah, as Hajar did on that most trying day. This deep faith and awareness had an amazing effect on the lives of Muslim men and women: it awoke their consciences and reminded them that Allaah witnesses and knows every secret, and that He is with a person wherever he may be. Nothing gives a clearer idea of that consciousness and fear of Allaah at all times than the story of the young Muslim girl related in Sifat al-Safwah and Wafiyat al-A'yan and cited by Ibn al-Jawzi in Ahkam al-Nisa' (pp. 441, 442): "Narrated 'Abdullaah ibn Zayd ibn Aslam, from his father, from his grandfather, who said: 'When I was accompanying 'Umar ibn al- Khattaab on his patrol of Madeenah at night, he felt tired, so he leant against a wall. It was the middle of the night, and (we heard) a woman say to her daughter, "O my daughter, get up and mix that milk with some water." The girl said, "O Mother, did you not hear the decree of Amir al-Mu'minin (chief of the believers) today?" The mother said, "What was that?" The girl said, "He ordered someone to announce in a loud voice that milk should not be mixed with water." The mother said, "Get up and mix the milk with water; you are in a place where 'Umar cannot see you." The girl told her mother, "I cannot obey Him (Allaah) in public and disobey him in private." 'Umar heard this, and told me: "O Aslam, go to that place and see who that girl is, and to whom she was speaking, and whether she has a husband." So I went to that place, and I saw that she was unmarried, the other woman was her mother, and neither of them had a husband. I came to 'Umar and told him what I had found out. He called his sons together, and said to them: "Do any of you need a wife, so I can arrange the marriage for you? If I had the desire to get married, I would have been the first one to marry this young woman." 'Abdullaah said: "I have a wife." 'Abd al-Rahmaan said: "I have a wife." 'Asim said: "I do not have a wife, so let me marry her." So 'Umar arranged for her to be married to 'Asim. She gave him a daughter, who grew up to be the mother of 'Umar ibn 'Abd al-'Azeez.'"
This is the deep sense of awareness that Islam had implanted in the heart of this young woman. She was righteous and upright in all her deeds, both in public and in private, because she believed that Allaah was with her at all times and saw and heard everything. This is true faith, and these are the effects of that faith, which raised her to the level of Ihsaan. One of the immediate rewards with which Allaah honoured her was this blessed marriage, one of whose descendants was the fifth rightly-guided Khalifah, 'Umar ibn 'Abd al-'Azeez, may Allaah be pleased with him. The Aqeedah (faith) of the true Muslim woman is pure and clear, uncontaminated by any stain of ignorance, illusion or superstition. This Aqeeda is based on faith in Allaah, the One, the Most High, the Eternal, Who is able to do all things, Who is in control of the entire universe, and to Whom all things must return: "Say: 'Who is it in Whose hands is the governance of all things - Who protects [all], but is not protected [by any]? [Say] if you know.' They will say, '[It belongs] to Allaah,' Say: 'Then how are you deluded?'" [Quran 23:88-89]
This is the pure, deep faith which increases the character of the Muslim woman in strength, understanding and maturity, so that she sees life as it really is, which is a place of testing whose results will be seen on the Day which will undoubtedly come:
• "Say: 'It is Allaah Who gives you life, then gives you death; then He will gather you together for the Day of Judgement about which there is no doubt': but most men do not understand." [Quran 45:26]
• "Did you then think that We had created you in jest, and that you would not be brought back to Us [for account]" [Quran 23:115]
• "Blessed is He in Whose hands is Dominion; and He over all things has Power - He Who created Death and Life, that He may try which of you is best in deed; and He is the Exalted in Might, Oft-Forgiving." [Quran 67:1-2]
On that Day, man will be brought to account for his deeds. If they are good, it will be good for him, and if they are bad, it will be bad for him. There will not be the slightest injustice: "That Day will every soul be requited for what it earned; no injustice will there be that Day, for Allaah is Swift in taking account." [Quran 40:17] The Balance (in which man's deeds will be weighed) will measure everything with the utmost precision, either in a person's favour or against him: "Then shall anyone who has done an atom's weight of good, see it! And anyone who has done an atom's weight of evil, shall see it." [Quran 99:7-8] Nothing could be hidden from the Lord of Glory on that Day, not even if it were as insignificant as a grain of mustard seed: "We shall set up scales of justice for the day of Judgement, so that not a soul will be dealt with unjustly in the least. And if there be [no more than] the weight of a mustard seed, We will bring it [to account]: and enough are We to take account." [Quran 21:47] No doubt the true Muslim woman, when she ponders the meaning of these ayat, would think about that crucial Day and would turn to her Lord in obedience, repentance and gratitude, seeking to do as many righteous deeds as she is able, in preparation for the Hereafter. She Worships Allaah It is no surprise that the true Muslim woman enthusiastically worships her Lord, because she knows that she is obliged to observe all the commandments that Allaah has enjoined upon every Muslim, male or female. So she carries out her Islamic duties properly, without making excuses or compromises, or being negligent.