Why am I lesbian. Why am I a lesbian I ask myself that everyday I ask is it because a woman has more feelings than a man or is it because a woman knows what a woman wants and what a woman needs. Is it because a woman knows how to love or is it because a woman cares more? But to me being a lesbian is the best thing that ever happened why am I happy to be who I am because I get to be me around the same sex as me that's why I love being a les.