I've always trusted fire because it was warm and inviting and I believe in trying to find similar souls to vibe with and make me feel freer from my cloudy depressive disorder.
So I base people by fire...if I see them doing something they love, I burn a lighter and hold the flame to the profile of the person to see if they look as if they can dance through the flames with me on this stupid confusing life.
Maybe that's why it's not easy for me to let go...I'm bad at accepting a blow to the chance of a bigger comforting, safe fire of people to make me happy and keep me busy.
I don't know, it's just a random tidbit of info I thought I'd share since I'm "supposed to be more expressive".