Sometimes in life we are not ready to move on...
Moving on often is categorized under the narrow definition of moving on from your exes however sometimes moving on from your older self is equally important. Because no matter what happens life goes on, so its upto you if you want to simply exist or you want to live your life freely.
It takes courage to move on from the comfort zone to the challenging zone of life to pursue your dreams.
The stuff dreams are made up of is truly amazing.
They have the potential to create magnificent paths in order to help you achieve your dreams and it also has the power to make you feel hopeless if you don't progress enough.....
Sometimes you have to move on from your dreams as well. Not your own personal dreams but the visions you had for your someone special. The vision to mold them into the reality you think they can be.
Sometimes you have to stop holding on to the hope that the lightning of realization will strike them, because whatever happens you live only once and dedicating your life to build someone up when you are not whole on the inside is not the key.
Leading by example is the key.
So let go of that dream, of that vision you have for them. No matter how much it hurts. Let go of it.
Because if we try to mold people in the image we have of them, will it truly lead them to a journey of self-discovery??
I always thought I wanted someone who could hold me and say,
"We will make it to the end, TOGETHER."
But it took me some time to realize that the first step towards falling in love is to love yourself.
Because unless you learn to take the world by storm,
Unless you feel whole on the inside, no one can make you feel whole.
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Epiphanies
Non-FictionA collection of short stories & epiphanies I come across in my daily life :) P.S-Most of these realizations dawn onto me thanks to perfectly amazing TED talks and motivational videos on you tube ; )