Learn to love yourself.
Before you can learn to love others, you will have to learn to love yourself. This isn't the sort of vain, self-absorbed love; it's the love that accepts you for the person you are, that explores deep to dig up the skills and values that truly make up who you are and embraces these.
Even if you don't believe in the value of self-love, start telling yourself that you are a kind, compassionate person and most of all, that you're worthy, because believe it or not you are !!
. Coupled with virtuous and kind actions, this will help you to be more self- accepting and .
Learn to stop criticizing yourself.
Take time to appreciate your talents and best features, whether they are physical or internal. The more hostile you are toward yourself, the more hostile you are likely to be toward others.