Silent problems and a student's guideline.

CHAPTER 4

Title; "STUDENT'S CHARACTER AND BACKGROUND".

It is well known "A man is known by the company he/she keeps". So, a student is known by the character he/she keeps. No doubt, some stones fall from mountains but somehow they adjust somewhere. Similarly, the etiquettes of a student somewhere falls but they also adjust somewhere. So, a student should maintain his/her etiquettes in a society. As an example of mine, I have no etiquettes in the society. The stones of my etiquettes and ethics are fallen and they just adjusted in the deepest part of the ocean. No one likes me, no one talks to me, but as I referred in the previous lesson that it is the personal interest of a student, whether he/she listens other or not, but if any one talks educative or about any antique observation, then I had to listen him. "Because I have made a mind of mine that I have to convey my processed observations to you".
I have been just like a dust particle in my matriculation, in front of my teachers. But after listening my farewell speech of last day, my teachers shocked and started congratulating me on every moment. They were my teacher's, that's why I respected them. But if they would like ordinary people then I would hug them and express my feelings...
So, from this you were just concluding that how my character is? No doubt, it is bad. Students will think that the writer himself is saying that, I have a bad character. Don't worry about me, correct yourself and please maintain your etiquettes.
"To err is human, and to forgive is divine"
-Dr .Taffazzul Hussain
A flower is useless without fragrance. Similarly, a student is said to be a student on behalf of his/her ethics and etiquettes, which he/she had learned from his/her "mother's lap". We sent a boy or girl to school, for the maintenance of his/her etiquettes and character, but now-a-days a boy or girl is sent to school to work hard for job in U.S.A. Wrong thinking...
If a student gets good etiquettes and a well balanced character after his/her school life, then there is nothing to stop your child climbing the stairs of success. There are four necessary ingredients for a student life. God, Respect, Acknowledgement and love, these four things make a complete student.
I met a drug addict in front of my grandmother's house. I asked his name, "Sharukh Khan", he replied. Suddenly, I laughed at once and become shocked, but I didn't wanted to break his heart. I said "hmmm nice name". He smiled so cute. I realized from that day, that a drug addict can have so leveled etiquettes, then why students are in deep slumber. A student in reality is said to be a teen, who kept a treasure of ethics in his/her mind and personality. A student always remains a student unless he/she starts his/her practical life. When a student do something wrong or makes a mistake, then he/she is tortured by everyone. "Hey_ in which school did you studied?" if it is a high level school then they become more aggressive.
Students should create pacifism in them. A student should be self esteem. Anyhow if he/she feels any difficulty in taking a decision, then he/she can discuss with his/her relatives or guardians.

"No matter how fast you run, you would never reach your goal, if you did not know, what it was"
-Faiez. H. Seyal.

Students; still there is some time to manage yourself...

"Love will have to bear another accident, why you make upped for me, daily."
-Dr. Taffazzul Hussain
Dear students, when I was a student of matriculation. I was too surprised that, how people can run a business 18hours a day?
Now I understood that they need money. So, we study 12hours a day in need of ethics, etiquettes and acknowledgement.

Remember!!!!!!...

Some Character building Golden Words
_I never think of the future it comes soon enough.
_The past can't see you but the future is listening.
_ The future always begin from Past.
_ No one can free himself from the past more easily then he can from his body.
_ Buddy...learns this prayer and say to God "Oh God
Make the broken feathers able to fly".
_ The greatest cast of the universe who has no family but makes families and help humans to improve their selves.
_Friends are like a snow ball which are very easy to make but very hard to keep.
_Beauty isn't on face it is a light in heart.
_Love is seventh sense which destroys all six senses.
_Promise is like an ice cream keeps it before it melts.

Some Good Character Traits
• Caring and Giving
• Citizenship and Civic Virtue
• Justice and Fairness
• Leadership
• Love Everyone
• Respect Elders
• Behave well
• Don't criticize those who are weak
• Remove negative thinking's
• Be humble
• Be Peaceful
• Do whatever your mind permits you
• Listen everyone but do your own
• Always speak on truth
• Be happy
• Should be a keen observant

It is said that;
If health is lost, then nothing is lost
If wealth is lost, then something is lost
But if Character is lost, then everything is lost
-Sir.Iftikhar Chughtai( My English Teacher in Matriculation)
ACTIVITY BOX:
Students, now it's your time to write that... why you go to school? Write any other thing... instead of acknowledgement, ethics and etiquettes.
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