Miss Agony Aunt

Advice #1

From: fickle-minded-friend
I had a friend. "Had" meaning we were such friends that people thought that we were BFFs but then she said really rude things to me and we couldn't get along well after that and we stopped talking. For some time we were like aliens to each other but then she started pretending normal and would stare at me at times and smiles at me if I meet her gaze. She doesn't have many friends and seems sad at times so I feel sorry for her and kind of guilty. Now we work in the same club at school and I have been made president and she works under me. I don't know how to go about it. Please help.

Solution:
If she is behaving normal with you then probably she wants your friendship back. It doesn't sound as if she's too desperate other than the fact that she was staring at you but that's maybe because she doesn't have many friends and she's longing for a friend like you. I think you could be friends with her again if you think she has changed. You should just put whatever happened behind and start afresh. If you think she's sorry then forgive her and be friends with her because if you are talking at the school about your club matters then it will be really awkward and uncomfortable for both of you to be businesslike and pretend like you are just coworkers. DON'T IGNORE HER because it will be VERY snobbish, no offence. If you don't wanna get too involved again coz you think she'll hurt your feelings then maintain a distance but don't shut her out completely. Don't be rude to her and perhaps you two can be friends again! I hope this helped!
~ Miss Agony Aunt ❤

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