Let's Be Honest

Girl Problems

Let's be Honest here for just one moment. 

1. Why do girls have so many problems with each other 

      This issue has always baffled me. I know exactly why too. It's because girls cannot be just plain nice to each other. And the problem is we, as girls, make guys the problem. Without boys we can get along just fine, but with them we become literally like cats. I am not saying we are to blame for the way we are represented in the media, but what aren't doing a whole lot to stop it either. Girls need to man up that's for sure. When men don't like something they change it. Not going to lie society is in part to blame for this. As a culture all throughout time, women were and are viewed as less than men in multiple ways. But that doesn't really make any sense considering women are the ones who push humans out of their bodies. So why do we not respect the people we come from? But for so long we let men push us around. But guys in general are usually pretty easy going as well. 

      There have been documentaries made about girl problems but let's be real. We need to realize that we don't need guys. It is possible for us to live without them. And I don't know about you people but that's how I classify a need, something you cannot live without. But I know we can all get boy crazy, I am crazy for this one boy at the moment, along with a string of celebrities. I am not saying cut them out of your life, by any means. And I am 100% for love and dating. But when we as girls realize that we don't need men to survive we can start to become the people we were always meant to be. We can figure out what kind of guy we want, what we will and will not settle for. And whether or not if we want a relationship. It's not that hard. It's easy to get caught up in a ton of high school problems and drama. But what purpose is that going to serve. 

    I'll take you on a little journey..... Back to eighth grade. It was the fall and nothing interesting was going on and my small class in a small school was boring. My friends and I were sitting at lunch, and there was nothing to talk about. So I prayed for some drama, and boy did I get some. Lost my best friend, got into trouble with boys, switched schools at the end of the year, got into a fight with my male best friend, got bad grades, and my parents and I did not get along. Worst year of my life so far. Almost everything that could minorly go wrong for a fourteen year old did, and boy did it suck. You really do get what you ask for, and everything really does happen for a reason. Because since then I pray for no drama, and only things that I know 80% that won't harm me, you never know the outcome of the situations. But there are definitely ones that you can put your self in that will make things worse. 

     How did I get over girl problems you ask? Honestly., I got over myself and started exploring what I do and don't like, what I will and will not do, and how I want to live my life. And I starting taking things slower, that took a long time because I was fast tracking through my life. I am completely fine with just living in the moment. And being with people who you truly care about it true. Be it guy or Girl most people just want to feel important and do something important.

     Another way to get over really dumb high school issues, is to realize that you are beautiful but you re going to have those days, when you don't pick out the right outfit and your hormones make your face look weird. But that's okay. Because someone will like you still. And he people you think are cool, just more than likely have a stick up their butt, and refuse to take it out, because it makes them feel better about themselves. Who ever that person is who comes up with sayings everybody says but no one knows who they are, nailed this saying. The best things come from unexpected people at the times when you need them.

    It's hard believe me I know and I cannot tell you to ignore them because it's hard, but I can tell you that everything could change tomorrow.

Love and Bacon,

Mic

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