To most of the single guys out there, you may be wondering how you even find love. Is love really out there? Can a person like ME find someone who will love me? You may be thinking “a guy/girl like me, ugly, lazy, nothing to love. There is no one for me.” And “I’m going to be single forever”
I’m here to say NO! You ARE going to find someone. But not anyone! Someone who loves you for who you are, who you are not and who you are going to be! They will love you forever and always and then some! She/he will always be there by your side. They will love you when you are hurt, love you when you are feeling great! They will love you when you’re on the top of the mountain and when you are down in the valley. This person will be a part of you. He/she is out there! Don’t you worry about that, all you need to do is search or prepare for when they will step into your life.
If you didn’t know, humans were made in pairs. Really! It is true! Watch; we can’t reproduce alone. When we are alone we crave for a companion, even for a conversation if we don’t we will go crazy or die. When we are together with someone or anyone, you start talking like them, laughing like them and even walking like them! (Proven by science, but I’ve seen it) we are made in pairs! We were meant to be with someone! You are NOT “forever alone”. And stop saying that! The only reason you keep saying that is because you accepted that you actually will be “forever alone” stop thinking like that and stop saying that.
Look, I don’t know how to get girls. When I was growing up I actually was the nerd. The guy who played video games all day and cared nothing but to hang out with ‘the guys’, yes to play more games! I wasn’t one of those “players” who talked to all the girls and were open to girls. I was quiet… like REALLY quiet. I was scared to even look at a girl none the less talk to one! To me, a girl was the scariest thing in the world. And even when I liked a girl (teen years -_-) I couldn’t talk to her at all because I was ugly! Yes I thought of myself as the ugliest thing in the world! I still think that… but look at me now! I have a girlfriend that loves me, all of me! She has seen my ugly side and still loved me; I am blessed to have her in my life. I am a testament to all the guys out there, the “forever alone” dude, the geek in the books or the nerd in the basement. YOU CAN GET A GIRL!
(I know it is weird to read this in a Love themed document but just keep reading, it will connect)
This is to the “UGLY” individual. The one who thinks they will never find someone because you think you are ugly and discussing. Thinking “how can anyone love me when I look LIKE THIS!”
I’m saying HOW CAN THEY NOT!? Look, you are beautiful! You are handsome! Truly you are! But you got to believe that yourself! Believe that you are good looking! Because yes! YOU ARE! God doesn’t make mistakes. You were made that way, in whatever way, PERFECTLY! You may be young, you maybe old, you may be scared, or whatever else. But you are BEAUTIFUL! And if you don’t like it, then change it. The amazing thing is that God could have made you like that because He wanted you to work at it. To strive for it, to work at it so you can believe that yes, you are beautiful.
DON’T! I repeat, DON’T compare your beauty to what this world says is beauty. That is not the way to go. Even the models that take those pictures think they are ugly! They are setting the standard of beauty that they themselves can’t even reach. If you compare your beauty to that of this world then yes, you are ugly. But so are the 7 billion people on this earth. Our standard should be ourselves. We are the essence of true beauty. Every morning when you wake up and look into that mirror after a splash of water on your face, tell yourself that you are beautiful or handsome! Doesn’t matter if you look like prince charming, sleeping beauty or a witch or a caveman. Tell yourself that! Believe it and be confident in yourself. Beauty is in confidence. You can walk around with the prettiest dress in the world but if you aren’t confident in it, it becomes ugly. But you can walk around in sweats and an old shirt and you can win a pageant if you are confident. Well maybe that’s a bit over board, but it is true. Beauty is in your confidence.
