Hi, I've been wanting to talk to someone about my situation I have going on with my boyfriend of 9 months. He's a really good guy and I can honestly say that. He's a good listener, understanding, and motivational (not too mention the sex is great too). Anyway, we've been dating for almost a year and he keeps pushing for us to get serious and make it official. and BC we haven't made it official on a title level we genuinely care for each other and I know we can be a hot couple I just don't think I'm ready. And even thought its not the whole reason but its a big deal that he can't keep a job, and lives with his parents. What should I do I mean I do care, but I can't settle, and he's getting restless.?
Well, you're not alone on this one, a lot of women face this problem at one point or another. But think about it he may be understanding, and a good listener but what are supposed to do if your a guy with no job living at home, and on the search for a girl friend. If it was the other way around and he was broke, and an asshole that never listened, that would be less points he have to give and that's a game killer. My advice to you is to be honest. Be honest with yourself and be honest with your partner, let him know how you feel. There's nothing wrong with not being ready for commitment, if you're not ready you're just not. He may pressure you like times ticking, but remind him of your goals and ambitions and how if he wanted you bad enough he would do what it takes to be progressive. In your own words of course because no one can tell you what to say because only you know how YOU really feel. Best of luck.
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