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PROBLEM: Your friend is suddenly avoiding you
So, let me start this with listing off the reasons why your friend suddenly avoids you.(Im using her/she)
1. She got a problem. Your friend might have a personal problem. She feels like she may become a burden to you because of her 'problem'. This 'problem' might be, her parents are having a divorce, or her family is deeply buried with debt. There's many possiblities on what is her problem. I suggest , show her how much you love her, try to aprroach her and ask whats wrong, why is it she suddenly avoids you.
2. Because of other friends. This is usually an ordinary scenario where the 'other' friends tells your friend to stay away from you. This actually happens like 24/7. People just love it when they dont like a person, they try to say that to their friends and expect them to 'side' with them , making their friend to avoid that person. I suggest that you approach your friend and ask her whats up. IT IS ALSO NOT RIGHT to make your friend chose between you and the other friends. This so-called otherfriends should FIRSTLY, understand and respect their friend on who she befriend or friends with. They can't be called 'friends' if they can't atleast 'tolerate' the other friends.
3. It's simply drifting off. Yes, it seems like you'll last forever but you wont. There are just friendships who seems like it. Don't try to blame yourself because as they say "it takes two to tango". But first, I really would advice you to try and talk to her because ALL relationships are precious. Dont give up so easily because she is avoiding you. Put some effort on trying to make her talk to you again. It will help you on the 'moving-on' part, the knowledge that atleast you had tried to save your friendship but sadly, it isn't really enough.
All in all,
Try to talk to her first before you let go. Dont give up so easily girl because she might be the 'best thing' that will happen in your entire life :) and if you cant really save the relationship, don't worry. Because there would be always 'this' person who will stick with you 'til the end :)
Like me, we thought that we would be best of friends forever, but one day. We simply drifted apart. We both put an effort to try and reconnect the bond but we just can't. of course i've got regrets. But i can easily breath because, i know that atleast we have tried and im really thankful because that sort of 'happening' lead me to the path. Now i have a one of a kind friends. even though they're crazy as monkeys O.O hahaha
Treasure your friends :)
XOXO Carmelle XOXO
