Divorced, why? "We have discussed this for a while now Lakota, we haven't been happy for a while now and we decided now you are 16 you were old enough to know". My mum and dad had been together for 20 years, how could this be happening? " What does this mean then?" "We've come up with two options, you can stay with me here in Brisbane", her mum said," or you can live with your dad out on poppy's farm". How could I even begin to choose, I exclaim. "You'll still get to see both of us Lakota", dad started," but you need to decide where to live, we'll give you time to think about it".