The birds and the bees

The birds and the bees

Curious about sex and sexuality

A word of advice from a stupid grown up

I felt the need to post this because it seems like a lot of young readers is in lack of basic knowledge, here are some tips on how to educate your self a little.

I’ve seen that there are some young readers browsing for R-rated stories that contain erotica. I understand fully the curiosity, but these stories are fiction and most of them have nothing to do with reality. So please keep that in mind if you can’t stay away from them.

Every body matures in a different rate, but as a standard R-rated stories are not suitable for readers under the age of 18. I’m not here to judge anybody, but be careful about reading stuff you legally are to young to read.

If you want to broaden you horizon use the Wikipedia or an alternative encyclopedias to search for words like

Human anatomy,

Clitoris

Genital

Anatomical terms related to sex

Genital modification and mutilation

Sexual (here you get a lot of choices in the search bar) and

Sexual fetishism,

Sexually transmitted disease,

Safe sex,

Pregnancy, and a lot of other words too I guess.

The more knowledge you have the better you will be able to find out what suites you and it will make you understand your own feelings better. Education is a key word when it comes to having a good life.

It’s okay to feel different, nobody is alike and that is what makes this world so great.

What you see in the R-rated movies is also fiction; they don’t look like normal people anymore because they do surgery and bleach their skin to alter their appearance in the most unlikely places. So if you think you look different then them you’re 100% normal.

Sex is wonderful and great when it’s something you are 100% ready for and can live with the consequences that can and will follow from your action.

Because there will always be consequences like getting birth control (hopefully before your actions), go to the doctor for controls for sexual transmitted diseases and for health examinations.

Never let yourself agree to do anything you are not fully comfortable with. Doesn’t matter if your friends say they have done it (a lot of people brag about stuff they never have done or ever will do) or if your partner pressures you because he or she wants to try.

If you have a partner that don’t understand when you say no and keep on pressuring you, they really don’t care about you and your needs.

A lot of sexual fantasies are supposed to stay fantasies and private, but some are okay to test out and play with. But what that is purely up to you. But the need of a partner you trust and can relay on is very important in any form of sexual relationship if you want it to be memorable.

But you don’t need a partner at all to have a good time too ;D

Lots of fun you can have on your own too.

A final word of advance

Love your own body, it’s beautiful the way it is.

It’s a lot of fun that can happen with a partner that don’t involve intercourse.

And it’s a nice way to get to know each other without taking it to another level.

You have plenty of time so don’t rush into anything you don’t feel is okay.

Have fun and play it safe.  And having sex with someone doesn’t make him or her love you.

I’m not interested in having chats or interactions with people under the age of 18 about sex or sexual matters, hope you’ll respect that.

There are health stations, nurses, doctors, parents (they have made you so they know how to make babies) or friends your own age you can talk to about this subject.

Broke ;D

 (the external link on your right side leads to a play list on YouTube, just for the fun of it )