Learning Together

Sex background

Sex was very different for both of us. When we got together I was a virgin and stayed that way for almost a year. I would have done it sooner. It I was scared.
There's one thing that always sticks out in my mind though that I love remembering.
We went to the beach after graduation.
Well he went down with some friends but their car flipped and my boyfriends dad and I road down to pick them up and ended up staying a few days. We all got drunk one night and I tried very hard to have sex that night but he refused even after I was pretty persistent. He locked me in the bathroom until I chilled out. A week later we finally had sex when we were I think sober. It fucking sucked...my boyfriend is insanely big and I'm not just saying that. He's at least 8 inches and he's got a good girth. After that we did it a lot and figured it out.
He always got off insanely fast and I ever did. He didn't really care. So 6 years later I've still never had an orgasm because I wouldn't play with myself. He never cared and didn't give a shit about me or what I liked. I started reading stuff and trying to figure it if there was something wrong with me and there wasn't he just didn't do anything that would get me off. It made me hate sex...it was boring and a hassle for me and so I just never wanted it which pissed him a lot.
After we broke up the guy I dated after him got me there and now I'm sorta addicted. I guess making up for lost time. I don't have any toys but I manage to get off in the shower and with my fingers a lot. Not that anyone cares but I'm trying to be pretty honest in this.
Well after we got back together though it's different now. He lasts much much longer and even likes some of the stuff I'd been reading about before we broke up.
Sex now it's pretty good but I want more. I want him to be more into what I like and maybe that's a little selfish but I don't know...I just would like to be happy too. He's trying and it's amazing.
He found out he likes to be dominant and we are learning about that. He likes to spank and be called daddy.
I love it! It's amazingly perfect!
I really want some of it to follow outside the bedroom though so I'm working on telling him that while we both read and learn. I have a friend that's a daddy dom and he answers a ton of questions for us. I know every relationship is different but it's nice to have someone in the community to help out.