Two partners and profoundness is a true triangle. Probably the only triangle that won't cause you to fight in the club, to lie like you about to go get some food and end up at your ex house, to save ya side piece number in your phone as ya moms name. But yea. Profoundness is a quality that is in the HEART-MIND (Yes your heart has a mind). It gives you awareness of ones existence, sensations & thoughts. AND THOSE THINGS ARE VITAL IN THE PROCESS OF RELATIONSHIP BUILDING. And building your hearts point of view (Yes your heart has a point of view) of your mate is a process that should be done EQUALLY.
Because when they fine ass looks fade, and they ain't popping like they use to, and things get boring (THINGS ALWAYS GET BORING, AND SOMETIMES MAN....BORING IS GOOD), and the seat on the toilet is being left up, shoes in the middle of the floor, & makeup is left around the sink, taking turns in cooking will become scarce, and they can't spell every word right, and they can't read every word when they get mail, and bill money might accidentally be spent on Jordan's, or their parents hate you, or they sometimes are smelly, or you might get a whiff of the bad breath, or they fart in their sleep a smell that sends you near death, or she can't cook, and he burns the BBQ, or she's always emotional or you have some anger issues. It's life man and real shit it's ok. That's when profoundness (your only true side piece) comes into play. Going beneath what is superficial in your mate. Allowing you to P E N E T R A T E to the depths of their being which eventually leads to the depths of "WE" & "US".
Stay in it and keep working with it and keep opening to it and keep deepening it. (IT= RSHIP)
And every time you trade in a relationship for what you think is a better one, you begin to see how you keep coming to the same places in a few of the things I mentioned up top, and how you tend to ALWAYS stop because it gets too heavy when our identity gets threatened too much. For the relationship to move to the next level of truth requires an opening and a vulnerability that you're not quite ready to make. STOP ACTING LIKE YOU BETTER THAN A FEW FARTS AND BAD BREATH FROM TIME TO TIME. YOUR SHIT STINKS TOO MY LOVE. So, you pull back and start to judge and push away, and then you move to the next person, where you have the rush of the openness and the same thing starts to happen.
All the while you keep saying, "Where am I gonna find the one where this doesn't happen?"
...it'll only happen when it doesn't happen in you – when you start to take and watch the stuff, when you start to get quiet enough inside yourself that you can take that process as it's happening and start to work with it – continuing to come back to living the truth in yourself with the other person, even though it's scary and hard. You hear what I'm talking about?
