I want to tell Her so bad that I'm in love with Her but I don't want to ruin our friendship. I literally only got 3o minutes to talk to Her after that she invited our other friend. All three of us were on the phone for an hour, but I wasn't talking. All I could hear was them two singing. After an hour I left the conversation and told our friend I wanted to be able to talk to Her alone tonight; she was offended. I tried apologizing she ignored me, so I went to Her to ask if she can tell our friend "I'm sorry but she needs to understand." She asked, "Understand what?" I said, "Understand that I didn't want to just sit there and listen." She apologized made it seem like a joke. Minutes later our friend tells me they're both mad at me because I use the term very loosely with Her but I don't it's just what I feel. How do you know whether to believe someone who acts like your friend but then does things to you that a friend wouldn't. You can't that's the problem she is like my bestfriend and I tell her everything and yet she still has the odasity to tell me that I'm using my girlfriend just to get over Her.