An: where do you guys come up with these nicknames lmao
Nickname: bubbs
Problem: bubbs friend has recently gotten a new friend (nickname of friend: kirk, nickname of new friend: cake)
Ever since kirk met cake she hasn't been hanging out with bubbs.
Bubbs understands that they want to get to know each other but; (her words not mine) "kirk has been acting like a real asshole, and she seems like she needs mental help." Bubbs also thinks that cake is flirting with kirk just to make bubbs jealous.
My advice: try to talk to kirk. say, "kirk, I feel left out." you can also ask kirk if all three of you can hang out together! Before you know it kirk and cake will be best friends with you. Also just because kirk is acting like an asshole it does not mean she needs mental health or anything. She might be going through a hard time and she might just need some counseling to get through a depressed state. having cake as a friend might be helping her in so many ways possible, and kirk might be pushing you away because she feels you do not listen to her true feelings. It might not be like this at all in any way but you need to understand that it is okay for kirk to have other friends and to hang out with them. oh and, people sometimes don't realize they are flirting. BUT if cake is doing it on purpose you need to tell her that you will never get jealous of something as small as that; be the bigger person and maybe people will find you much more mature than someone like cake, who flirts with people on purpose.
Drop a comment if you have any advice for bubbs!
