#GetHelp

love

Anonymous: Dear Amy,

So there's this guy that I like and I'm not sure if he's into me or not? I think he is but because I'm so terribly afraid of rejection, I neither have the guts nor the courage to go straight up to him and ask him! What should I do??

Amy: Hello lovely! The key to knowing if he likes you back is the way he acts towards you. Does he act differently around you? Does he make eye contact when you talk to him? Does he try to make you happy? If he does, there's a chance that he likes you back. If you're scared of asking him out, try asking if he wants to hang out (as a friend). Then, see what he says. If he says yes, but you're afraid that it would be awkward, you could invite some of his friends and some of yours, too. That way, you could also see if he acts a certain way towards you. If you can ask him to hang out with you as a friend, you can ask him out. In other words, just do it! Take it step by step; test the waters. We believe in you. Remember, if he doesn't feel the same way, it's fine, just ask him if he wants to remain friends. Good luck! xx

Anonymous: Thank you for the positive encouragement!! While I'm still nervous I feel a little better about asking him now.❤️❤️

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Anonymous: Umm...Hey, Amy! I have a question for you...It's embarrassing, but I don't know how to handle this. There is a guy I had a crush on for a long time, and we know each other since we were children, and we are also neighbors. But he doesn't feel the same for me. When he found it out from a girl in my class he told me that I am nice, but not his type and he started dating one of my friends. Please, can you tell me what can I do to get over this?

Amy: Hi lovely! That is really tough to answer and I'm really sorry for you. But sometime you just have to let people go for the best. Maybe you should start talking to more guys to keep your mind off of him, and maybe you can find someone who feels the same way as you. If you don't, know that it's alright to be a Single Pringle™ (lol). But all jokes aside, you are a beautiful, independent girl that doesn't need a man. Hope that this helped lol
-Amy xx

Anonymous: I will try to follow your advice. Thank you, Amy!

Amy: You're very welcome! Have a good day <3

Anonymous: You too!

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Anonymous: hi amy, i have a question about a boy. i only met him a few weeks ago over a weekly church summer night, and every time i saw him, my heart would just go "!!" i can't say this is love; but i can say i'm surely falling for him. his slight freckles, his eyes, his laugh, everything. do i let him go and like him from a distance and not tell him or confess when the chance shows?

Amy: Hi lovely! That's a hard question to answer, so sorry if this answer doesn't help, but if you really like him want him to know that you like him sooner or later, go ahead and tell him as soon as you get the chance to. However, if you only like him a little bit, you might want to keep it a secret since your crush on him might go away soon. I hope you understand what I'm trying to say lol. But the answer to this question also depends on if you think he likes you back and how much longer you are going to see him. For example, if you are never going to see him after the summer is over, you might as well tell him that you like him now or you never will be able to. Hope that this helped in some sort of way. Good luck!- Amy xx

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Anonymous: Oh geez I hope I'm doing this right anyways,

Um I'm in love with two different people and continue switching between being in a relationship with one and the other.. I don't know if I should just pick one or if what I'm doing is okay... they don't really like each other so..

Is having a relationship like this okay?? Or should I just start being with only one?

Amy: First of all, I'm so sorry for not responding quickly. It's been 2 weeks and I feel so bad for not responding.

My answer would be to choose one, and there is a reason behind that. Technically dating two people at the same time is considered cheating, so if one of them ever find out it's not an "oh, that's alright," it's a "you were cheating on me?" Even guys experience as much heartbreak as a girl, and if you've read books on Wattpad or actual books with girls or boys being cheated on you know how they react: messy fights and many tears. I think it's a stable decision to date one person because it doesn't make a lot of sense if you're dating two; if one is the love of your life, what's the other?

Wishing you lots of luck,

Amy