Hello,
so, heartbreak? Ah, the worst pain that can be felt to anyone. its what inspires music, poetry, realization, etc. Some heartbreaks feel like the first one sometimes, and even though everyone goes through it at least once you still can't help but feel alone, lost, sometimes not completely understood.
Heartbreak is truly the worst part of being human, you feel your heart is ripped from your chest or you feel like the one who broke you had broken the shell of who you are and take your heart and soul with them, leaving you a billion pieced mess.
But darling, place your hand over your chest. Do feel that? The rhythmic beating that keeps you alive? Do you hear it the slow, fast, or even broken pace in your ears? Yes, do know what that means? Your heart, its still with you, it still beats for you even when you feel like it no longer beats for the one who once held it.
Right, they may have left you making you feel empty, but my dear. You are not empty, you are full and you are exquisitely you, you have vessels running through your veins, muscles that you can move even though you feel trapped where you sit or stand, a brain full of intelligence and a body of grace and soul that will be better suited or someone else than before. You are not empty. You are full; Surely full with pain but my sweet, all pain heals. With healing comes strength.
Also, I'm not implying to move on and pretend it never happened, do grief, reflect, let that period of time be your "pause" button. But also, reflect the relationship, as painful as it may seem
to do so, just allow your mind to montage that time you spend the one that meant to you the most. whether it was a short few months or to a year, allow the pain to flow its course, listen to the ones who hold advise or comfort, that's what they're there for, get angry, livid even.
Take in each feeling and take in the fact that you are human and have the right to feel how you feel, take the lesson learned, and lastly–
Thank them.
Thank them for coming into your life and being a blessing, lesson, and making you stronger than before because now, you will only get stronger after the heartbreak.
