Okay... so you fall in love right? But what's it really like to fall in love? How do you even know if you fell in love? Would you use the textbook definition to describe it? Or would you use your own words? What if you fall in love with the idea of someone? Is it still the same thing as loving someone? IS it authentic? Would it be a first love if it lasted for a month? What if you try to come back to them saying that you fell for them over again? Can that happen? Or is it because you never fell out of love? What if you loved them this whole time but you just didn't think about it? What if it was fake and all you were in love with was the memories? Would the love be fake if you were in love with the memories instead of the real thing? If the concept of first love is true then there should be a second love right? Because if you have a second love then that means you technically didn't love the first as much as you did the second. Just because some claim that there is only one true love, is it really true love? What exactly is love? Better yet, what exactly is true love? How do you know it's true love? What's the difference between love and true love? Or are they the same thing? Can love take over someone's life? Should it be the most important thing in a person's life? Does love dictate a couple? Does it become our weakness or strength? Why do people look for love? Why do some people wait for it? Why do people think it weakens us or strengthens us? Why is it the emotion most people pay attention to aside from sadness, happiness, and anger? Why do people let it define their life? If love is just an emotion, why does it matter so much? Will love be the thing that destroys us? Or will it bring people together? If we look for love, then why do people cheat or sell their bodies? Why do people betray each other for love? Why does it cause problems for people? Why can't it be simple? Why do people break each others hearts even though they say I love you? Why do we constantly repeat that phrase to all the people we have a relationship with? Why do we marry people but end up divorcing? Was it because there was a problem with the love? Or was it because most people fall in love with the person they thought their partner was? Why is it that people cause so much harm to each other and claim that it's love? Aren't you just being fake if you say that? Is the textbook definition of love even accurate? Why do we inflict emotional pain and stress to others? Why do we claim we love someone when in the end we just end up hurting each other? When did a passionate phrase become lazy into a phrase that holds empty words? What about love at first sight? Is it real? Can it really happen? What about the love in those fairy tales? Are those examples of true love? Or are they just stories that give children hope? Why do we look at fairy tales for examples of love? Why is it portrayed that way? Why do people hope or dream about love? What makes it so important? Why does it make people so desperate for it? Why is a simple emotion affecting people like that? How was love like in the early years of human society? What's the difference between liking someone and loving someone? Is there even a difference? Why is it 2 different concepts? Why do we say I love you to them when we have a relationship? If you like them enough to have a relationship with them, then why do we say i love you instead of i like you? Can like turn to love? How does that work? Is there a difference between a crush and a lover? If you have a lover then why do people have crushes too? Is it possible to love someone else's lover? Why is that such a common problem for people? Why do people get jealous? Is it because you like them or love them? Why are there other elements included in love when love is just an emotion? If you love them, you love them but why is it so complicated? Based on how many questions I have, why is an emotion so difficult to deal with? Why is it that there are many beliefs about love? Why are there so many contributions to love than no one ever teaches us? Why are there so many possibilities? Is it possible to fall out of love? Why is love so different? What's so special about it? Why do people pay attention to it? Why do people get hurt by it? Why do people treat it differently? Why do people get hurt but they don't learn from it? Why does it cause us a lot of physical, emotional, and mental pain? Why does it make us feel good? Why do people take advantage of love? Why do people abuse their lovers? Why did humanity ruin the concept of love? Can you love someone and fear them at the same time? Why do we love someone and then something happens? Why do people portray love as a happy ending when there are people out there abusing it? Why do people treat their lovers differently after a while? Why do we try to impress a person so much that we lose ourselves in the process? Why do people put up a fake front just so someone can love them? Why do we constantly hide ourselves just for love? Why do we need love to feel happy? Why does love give us pain when it's supposed to be a happy ending? Where is the happy ending? Why do we break our hearts over it? How do you know which part is healthy or not? Is love really healthy for you? Why is it healthy? Can it be the opposite of healthy? Which parts of love it healthy for you? Why does it cause pain if it's healthy? Why? What's so special? Why is it so pure yet so fake? Why is it happy yet so sad? Why is it healthy yet causes pain? Why?
Can all these questions be answered by someone else or do you have to figure them out yourself? I ask questions that often leave people speechless. Can you answer these questions or will I have to break my heart over and over again just to look for these answers?
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RandomThoughts. Simple as that. Why? Just cuz. You never know what might happen until it happens. But your thoughts make you who you are inside no matter what happens. So enjoy.
