Thoughts.

7/9/17

I'm gonna base this whole thing on one subject only. Reality. I mean by definition reality is the world or state of things as they exist. In other words, the real world or the truth. But what if someone's reality is another person's lie? Is it still considered the truth? What if reality was our dream? If our dreams are a true fact, would it be considered our reality or just an idea? If reality was the truth, then why do we lie about it? Why do people avoid reality? If mentally ill people have their own reality, doesn't that mean that everyone one has their own truth? Why do we keep them away from the world? If our thoughts were the truth about ourselves, then that would make them our reality. So why do we try to hide reality? Why are we hypocritical about reality? Why do we take away other's reality by forcing them to accept our's? What's so bad about knowing the truth when all it does is show us what society became? We try so hard to dismiss it but no matter what you do, the reality of it all is that we are insecure and afraid of it. We don't want to face the hardest truth because we don't want to accept it. We're all buried in our own realities that we don't even notice the fact that we take it away from each other. Some people think reality is their hell. Others think that reality is their freedom. "The trust of the innocent is the liar's most useful tool." (Stephen King) Everyone lies at some point in their life because they don't want to face the reality of things. But that's the thing. A lot of people talk about reality. But explain reality. What's the big deal? It's this one whole stupid truth that for some reason people don't want to accept. I know it's easier said than done but I've said this before. Make your dream a reality because at some point in life it was someone else's reality. The world defines reality as a whole truth but it's not. It's a whole universe of realities that make it up. Because every single person has this truth that sticks with them. It's called their life. Their life is their reality yet we tend to take it away from each other. You wanna know the whole truth of it? Everyone struggles with different problems but when we post stuff including advice, we can all relate to it. That's the reality of things. Each and every problem you go through. Every single moment of your life, people understand what you go through. They might not feel the emotion you feel but they've felt it before. That's how it is. That's the fucking reality of the world. Everyone has their own single problem, moment, happiness, and reality. But what makes everyone so special is that their reality can never be the same after something happens. I observe people and I know that everyone has a small world that they go through. People might have similar clothes, personalities, thoughts, and whatnot. The only difference is reality. If you think about it, the world is filled with everyone's reality. People just won't accept it though. Like why can't you accept that? People want to be different but they won't accept their own reality? Like how are you gonna live your life worrying about other people's reality? They think the way they think, they see the world they see it as. Don't change it. Mentally ill people do need help but don't force your world on to theirs. It's just a matter of time until society takes a turn for the worse because everyone is too stupid to make a change about it and try accepting things. Like everyone is biased, even if you don't care. Everyone is contradicting themselves. Even me. Your reality is yours. If you want to change it, make sure there are people who are willing to accept it. Sometimes you just have to accept it. People think about others but they keep forgetting to think about whether what they want is the right thing to do. That's one of the problems about reality. We contradict ourselves to the point where we think that messing with someone else's world is the right thing for us to do. Sometimes it is but humans are so extra when this happens. We harm ourselves yet we don't do anything about it until someone tells us to. That's why reality is so fucked up. Because we think it's this one huge thing that we don't even realize everyone has a reality until we fuck it up. After we fuck it up for ourselves, other people butt in and force their reality on to us. So after you read this whole rant thing... are you gonna avoid your reality? Because the more you lie to yourself, the worse it's gonna get. You have to understand that not everything in your reality is easy to accept. Part of the reason why people butt into it is because they care. If they care for the right reasons, then let them. But don't forget, it's your world. It's not theirs or anyone else's. You own your life. Your life becomes your reality. So if you want to accept your reality, make it yours because trust me, sometimes accepting reality when you have others who care about you make it a whole lot easier. When people talk about reality, just remember you have your own. You can fight for it, change it, make it better, make it worse, or whatever. It's yours so don't let anyone try to take it away from you. It's the one thing society can never take away because without knowing what reality is to you is like taking away your identity until all that's left is an empty doll. Reality will always be with you if you accept it and learn to make it your own.