My story

We broke up

So i was dating this guy...

lets call him "Bob" (bc i dont wanna put his real name)

We have been dating for a few months and i have had the time of my life... Well i thought i was having the best time with him...But then my friends kept telling me he isn't as he seems and of course me being blind AF i denied them and told them to leave me alone...

I lost a few friends bc of that.... I thought a boy was more important than my best friends and that cause me to lose all of them... i was alone for awhile and then as i was going to meet "Bob" i saw him bullying someone really close to me behind their backs... We will call this friend "Jessie"...

He was making fun of her all the time... thats when i found out my friends wernt lieing to me and i regretted not trusting someone i have known for years...

I Confronted him about it later and told him i didn't want him making fun of Jessie behind her back.... He called her sooooo many things in front of me and i started to ignore him for a while...

He claimed he didnt understand why i was ignoring him and thats when i stopped loving him...

I told Jessie about it and i didn't tell her the whole story and i said it wrong to her... She yelled at me for not having her back when she had mine for all these years... The thing is i did have her back But she didn't know it because i never told her those parts when i stood up for her...

Then i decided to give him a chance but he didnt change at all... Instead he tryed changing me and i feel he tried to make me forget about them bc they were being mean to him....

Then summer came and we would hangout ever other day... And he still didnt change so i decided if he cant change just alittle and respect me or Jessie or other friends then we shouldnt be together...

So i talked to him and i broke up with him... We still talk a little and he trys to guilt trip me a lot... He has claimed that his life is ruined and he cant sleep or do anything without me... and if he really wanted me then he should have respected me...

So i dont plan to talk to him ever again... And im okay with that because i have a loving family and i dont need a boy to make me happy when i have the best family and best friend ever... I also have a new older brother haha maybe i can get him to beat "Bob" up haha jk but that would be epic to see...