Thoughts about Life

"How to Deal With a Jealous Girlfriend"

Is your girlfriend driving you crazy because she is jealous of you? Is she limiting your space, because she does not trust you ? And in spite of these all you still love her...?

1

Talk to her and find out why she is jealous

 Some will say "I fear you will leave me for a new girl", Or "I feel you will sleep with others" or "You are too handsome, I am afraid soon you will leave me". Realize that, unless she is crazy - she will have a reason for her behavior. Thus, find out the reasons first.

2

Ask yourself if her thinking is acceptable

 In other words, do the things she says make sense to you. If she tells you for example "You hang out with girls all the time!", and you know that this is not true, confront her about it. Show her the facts.

3

Think of a solution

 Sit down with your girl and talk about what the best way is to solve that obstacle. Maybe she will ask to join you more often when you go outside, or maybe she will ask you to call more often when you are away. Either way, there is always a way out. Just do not think that by being silent, things will figure themselves out. That will definitely not happen.

You can never change the true nature of someone. So, if she is jealous now, she will be jealous in the future. But, if you know her reasons, you can do something about it to help her overcome her jealousy. After all, a relationship is about cooperation.