After having processed a 3 months heartbreak, from a guy whom I thought would be my first boyfriend but later found out he had sex with my "friend" - I decided to from now on finish school first before I would start dating again (just as my mom always wanted me to).
Summerbreak was just over and I felt goooood. New hairstyle, bodygoal reached and filled with the holy Spirit.
I was motivated to be a nerd in my new school.
#NoBoys #studyingonly
Yepp it didnt went as planned but we'll get there.
School had just started and I noticed that I had some handsome Black guys there - all in different shades. 😍
But I decided to Stick to my plan and play cool.
I didnt have any lessons with any of them.. until I chose to be in the theatre group.
That's when I met him. Duley. A tall congolese, full of melanin with a bright smile and that 'Daamn girl, you fine' look.
I kneeeeew he was trouble, so I did my best to avoid being around him.
But the guy stubbornly tried to get to know me so he wents:
Duley: Hey... (Looks deep into my eyes) I didn't get your name when the teacher called you up
Me: Chanel (playing unimpressed)
Duley: Chanel.. (Smiles) nice to meet you. I'm Duley (shakes my hand slowly and continues to look me in the eye) your new here right ?
Me: obviously (smiles)
Duley: well if you need anything, let me know (leaves)
He continuesly watched whatever I did in class, which didnt bother me much I mean this is a poor way of trying to get to know s/o
I simply thought to myself :
Boyy you must be out of your mind thinking you can get to me like that.
But as I said - THE GUY WAS STUBBORN !
See guys, friends normally want the best for you but that, often times goes wrooong.
I'm a church girl. Sunday is churchday, and I rarely date because most guys or so called men are immature.
I don't feel like dating plenty of guys or gathering sexual experience gets me anywhere. So you know - I take my time.
My sister by another mister Mercedes on the other hand thinks, I will not find any man to marry if I don't get out of my comfort zone.
So guess what..
It was a rainy Friday evening, I was in Bed, chilling and listening to music, and waiting for Mercy (Mercedes) when I all of sudden get a text
Hey beautiful
~ unknown
Me: ?
You not even going to say thank you ?
~unknown
Me: thanks stranger😂 do you have a name ?
Guess 😏
~ unknown
Me: stop playing -.-
Ok ok.. one hint, I'm trying my best to get your attention, but your playing hard headed 👀
~ unknown
Me: Don't tell me your Duley ?
Duley: sorry to disappoint you, it's me
