Crushes~The Good and The Bad

Dear Guys/Dear Girls/Dear Everyone

Yo, just saying this is written from a girl's perspective so I dunno if everyone will relate. Mk? Mk.

Dear guys,

Just so you freakin' know, if you meet a girl, and she has a crush or bf at the time of you meeting her, the chances of her ever liking you are about 3%. I'm sorry to burst your little bubble but, better find out from me then ruin what could of been a great friendship! Don't put a girl in the 'girlfriend' zone cause I know a lot of girls will kick your throat out for this.

Also, just because some of us like and laugh at sex jokes. That doesn't mean we appreciated sexist ones or ones aimed at us. Cause, again, I will kick you in the throat. Also, it's a sure way to make a girl loose interest or have a gf break up with you.

This last one really pisses me off. Calling a girl fat just because they don't have the body type advertised on TV. This is the death of me. Not everyone is stick thin, has boobs, and has a butt. That is like 0.000001% of girls body types. So if you don't the shut the eff up you better not be allergic to nuts cause I'm about to kick yours up your throat.

Dear girls, 

Your turn. Just stop gossiping, just stop. Stop telling other girls who they can and can't like. Stop spreading rumors to lift yourself up. If your throne is made of other girls you pushed down, you don't deserve it.

Don't let anyone tell you what you can and can't do in your life. Don't change because the media or a boy is telling you to.

But, most of all, Don't be a freaking jerk. 

Don't judge a guy just because he doesn't have a 6 pack and amazing muscles. If you expect people to not judge you for your body type, you can't judge others for theirs.

Dear everyone,

It's about to get real in here cause, boy have I been taking all the bs from a lot of people lately and not saying a damn thing.

First off, RESPECT OTHER PEOPLES FRICKIN VIEWS!!!! If I was to go over all the times that one of my friends and/or their family made me uncomfortable about my view on something, even when they know I have a different view. Just stop. I'm thinking of one person as I write this and they are so homophobic and I've told them it makes me so damn uncomfortable and they still won't freaking stop. I want to drop them as a friend but they keep pulling me back in.

Don't hate someone and turn them away as a friend just because they're different than you. Everyone is  H U M A N! Their religion, sexuality, gender identity, etc. doesn't change who they are as a person.

Don't barge in to someone's conversation.  As someone who has a very sarcastic and teasing sense of humor I absolutely HATE THIS! I'm having a convo with a friend and joking about something and you come in with so-called facts. (The situation I'm thinking of the person was wrong, sometimes they're right but still DID I OR MY FRIENDS[S] INVITE YOU INTO THE CONVO?) You shouldn't do that because 1) you weren't in the convo in the first place, 2) NO ONE ASKED YOU.

Don't roll your eyes at someone just because they aren't as good at something as you. You might be good at volleyball but, if you came to my musical theatre group I could kill you. Stop rolling your eyes at me. I'd rather be on stage then here anyway, I'm just required to do a sport.

Don't force someone to do something if they're uncomfortable. People have anxiety and depression and other illness that they sometimes don't want anyone to know about. If someone is visibly uncomfortable, ask them why and try to help.   

Don't try and guilt trip someone into hanging out with you. Some people make plans and then something causes them to not be able to come. Mentally or physically. If you keep trying to guilt trip someone into hanging out with you they'll either 1) end up coming and break down crying because they don't feel well enough to be there, 2) realize you're a jerk and stop hanging out with you completely, or 3) realize you're a jerk and punch you in the face for it and then lecture you about it.

So for the love of all things good and holy, everyone please just stop being a jerk.

Yours,

A very pissed off Grace.