Colors Of Life

Choose happiness

What is your way to be happy? Have you ever asked this question to yourself?  What answer did you get? I asked myself one day, then got the answer.  There are many ways of staying happy with my own. First of all, I found happiness by helping others, regardless of how helpful it is. I like helping others, especially the poor children. I want to do something for poor children, seeing them I always think that they know they are poor but unaware of what poverty is? You have to find yourself in your own happiness and take that reason as your first goal. “Most people are about as happy as they make up their minds to be.” —Abraham Lincoln

The happiness that comes in giving can be felt only by giving, you cannot explain that feeling. Whatever you give, it will be doubled. So with such happiness, it increases by giving. “Happiness is not something ready-made. It comes from your own actions.” -Dalai Lama.

Count your blessings. Ever wondered if we had no hands and feet, how would life be? If we were blind, weird or dump, how would we live? How many problems did we have to go through? How much we would have to depend on others? Think once, are we really happy? Not at all, no matter what we have, first of all appreciate those things and thank God, otherwise you will get all that you want. “I am happy because I'm grateful. I choose to be grateful. That gratitude allows me to be happy.” Will Arnett.

There are good days and bad days in life, it is on us how we view our life. We can always be happy by praying to the lord, by trusting in the lord and by thanking the lord. Happiness is a choice, always do the work that makes you and others happy.

Always keep positive thinking, positive thinking brings smile on the face and this smile is precious gift of god which makes every problem easier. Life is very easy to spend if you are smiling. If you think positively you will be happy and you will be happy only then you will be able to keep everyone happy. Watch romantic or comedy movies, read books on kindness, surround yourself with positive people and beautiful flowers for fragrance, go for a walk, spend time with children because children are the great source of happiness etc. Give love and respect your elders no matter they are poor or rich. Treat everybody equally. If you want to be respected then you will have to respect it first.

Firstly be friendly with your own self then expect others to do..... as long as you don't respect yourself, nobody will respect you. You have come to be happy in this world, you have to be happy. If you are happy then your family will be happy to see you happy. This is the specialty of being happy. So choose happiness. Small ways to be happy- be happy, give happiness and share your happiness.

Chase your dreams. How happy we are when dreams come true. Yo make your dreams come and prove everybody that it can be done in particular, when people reject you. Enjoy your every success even smallest. Small success only makes one big success.

Speak good language. Using bad language can hurt someone's heart. The heart can be won by good language, what is the difference if we speak sweetly. We will have sweetness in our self, we are happy to give happiness. “If you want others to be happy, practice compassion. If you want to be happy, practice compassion.” -Dalai Lama.

In my opinion, whatever we have is our first happiness. We often forget and run away behind things we don't have. Don't look at what others have, see that God has given you a lot. Whatever God has given to you, thank him first and start with the same thing. The first happiness is hidden in it. “I just find myself happy with the simple things. Appreciating the blessings God gave me.” -DMX.

Right now I am watching a video of Sam Berns in YouTube, and he is talking about his philosophy for a happy life.
“Be ok with what you ultimately can't do, because there is so much you can do.” So encouraging, I felt like sharing with you all. He has given me new purpose of life and really after listening his video I felt life is not as difficult as we make it. Life becomes very easy when you learn how to live.

Do something every day that gives you happiness i.e dancing, singing, going for a long drive, playing with children, watching movie with friends, going for shopping etc I like shopping very much. The greatest happiness is to listen to someone's heart, give someone your time and spending time with elders. They want nothing for just half an hour, to tell you about their life experiences. They are happy with just that. This much we can do for our elderly, now to be happy, it will have to do a little bit of hard work because nothing is available without hard work and passion.

Don't forget the Lord in doing all things and trying to make our self and others happy. How much the Lord has given to us, we have to think about his happiness as well. How does the Lord be pleased? The Lord is pleased by loving his creation. Colossians 3:20 “Children, be obedient to your parents in all things, for this is well-pleasing to the Lord.”

“Happiness is a choice – not a result. Nothing will make you happy until you choose to be happy. No person will make you happy unless you decide to be happy. Your happiness will not come to you. It can only come from you.” – Ralph Marston.

I hope you guys like it, May God bless you all with spiritual healthy wealthy long life and with good destiny......