The Bold Move

MEN:MAKING THE BOLD MOVE IN THE HOME

             The family is the most important foundation member in our society, here the basic morals are imbibed into us and here we have a security sense. In the family most of what we do and how we act are learnt in the early stages mostly between ages 1-6years. These character and views of the society tends to go  long  in affecting and impacting our moves, choices and most importantly how we treat others.

              We wait on the government to bring the change where as it begins from the family. If men can be men and understand bullying, hitting are all wrong. If you can't make your wife smile and keep a happy home, you have failed. A wise man recently broke it down to simple words we can reason with, he said " when you met your wife, she was everything and made you happy. Today you say she has changed, the truth is you caused it, you have what it takes to reset her back to the loving woman you met, be a man, make it work, win back her trust, make the BOLD MOVE. A happy home prolongs your life, keeps you fulfilled, don't be a coward and find sad-happiness in the arms of another woman.
              A man should always remember that he is his woman's best friend, confidant, security and her all. Try to be in her shoes, see things from her point of view. Don't go speaking against her in public, don't ever rebuke her in the presence of the kids. If you do this, you break her down and the sad part is you break yourself down, you loose your respect in the eyes of the kids and all those around. A man is not one who is a male and has two balls, NO it takes a whole lot to be a man. A man provides security not take it away, he is a strong leader yet at the same time a humble servant, he corrects strictly but yet he does with love. I challenge you today to be a MAN, fix your home and lets all build the nation we desire where hardwork, love, respect,unity and good virtues are praised and a part of our character.