If you love some one and in order for them to love you you have to change then they aren't worth it if they can't love or like you for who you are they ain't worth shit. True love accepts you no matter WHAT. If you have to change for someone I don't care don't change for them because eventually you'll want the old you back and lots others will want the old you back too.
An example: you like the most popular boy or girl in school you admit to them and they say sorry I don't like you maybe if you were different. You change become popular but what about your old friends your true friends that accepted you for who you are you start becoming a bitch and ass to them.
Example: the person who really loved you and it was true is the most obvious person in the world you ignore them. They feel heart broken because YOU.
