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RIP Jonghyun 😔

Last night, I got on twitter using my private (personal) account and decided to look at the trendings list. I saw "Jonghyun" "Shinee" and "#StayStrongSHAWOLS" on the list. I clicked on Jonghyun's name and then I found out about him.

This is truly heartbreaking 😔 SHINee is a very powerful group. Powerful choreography and powerful underrated songs. See that news literally crushed my heart into pieces 😢

Jonghyun is a very very nice person. He is close friends with Taeyeon, right? She goes to his agit and to SHINee's concerts because she is that close to them. I believe that Jonghyun is also close to a lot of people, to who he became an inspiration.

I've read an article about his friend that revealed their conversation and the reason of his death.

This might break your heart again. Be ready.

Jonghyun's friend claims the root of Jonghyun's struggle was music.

The friend explained, "He said he felt like he wasn't living up to the expectations. He wanted to do better but felt like he was lacking talent. He was struggling, saying that he's getting bumped down as he gets older."

Shocking, right? Jonghyun is a very talented person. He does his best in performing, in everything. But despite his hard works, for him, it's still not enough. But he is enough, right? 🙁

I really hope that this happening will be a wake up call for all the fans, kpop or non-kpop. Our idols are human too. They are capable of feeling sadness; depression. Behind those smiles, hard work, powerful performances, efforts; there is always something behind all that. Our idols does their best for us fans, let them feel that they're enough. Tell them you love them, let them feel loved. If they're sad, comfort them. But I know our idols doesn't want to make us fans worry, so let's just keep them happy. If you don't have something good to say, it is better to just shut up. Don't pressure them. Don't control their life. Let them date who they want to date. Let them go to where they want to go. Let them do what they want to do. Let them live.

Praise them for their hard works. For their efforts. Praise them. Thank them for doing their best. Never let them feel that they have to meet our expectations.

I hate it when this happens, when people value a person when they die. (disclaimer: I'm not generalizing anything or anyone here, okay?) Why not value them when they're still alive?