If you don't have anything nice to say..
Tell me.
If you have a problem....
Tell me.
You'll never get shit fixed if you keep it all pent up. The problem is everyone's too sensitive now. We all walk around keeping our mouths shut because we don't want to hurt peoples feelings. It will come out eventually. Personally I'd like to be in control of what I say rather than wait until it explodes out of me.