love is a strong emotion felt by two people. no person loves the same way. everyone has different ways of showing it.
whether it's through actions or through words. never & i mean ever should u compare one person to another.
they will give u what they can. loving someone & giving ur all is hard. everyone has gone through things, you can't expect them to show you everything they've got.
we're filled in a world where everyone has been hurt & we're all scared to be hurt again. when someone says they love you, please don't take advantage of that. don't hurt them repeatedly just bcos you know that they will never leave.
being with someone doesn't always mean you get something in return. you can give your all & the other person can give you little to nothing. but i can tell you that you still mean a crap load to that person if they've told you that they love you.
they're having problems showing you that. it's hard & frustrating to be on the other end. but they're not in tune with their feelings & can't connect it to actions. if they look at you with that twinkle in their eye, if they look at you with the biggest & genuine smile just know they want you to be there forever.
that's their small way of showing you that they love you & you mean something to you. it should just be natural, you'd think right? but from my experience, it's not. its not natural when you're always stuck in your head & just imagining all the worst things that can happen. if you're that person, please listen to me. get out of your head.
you won't notice they're slipping through your fingers till it's too late. if you're the other person, ik it's hard & it might hurt a lot but the worst thing u can do is give up on the person. once u do, you'll just change the person completely.
if it hurts too much, don't be a total dick. explain it to them in the most genuine way & let them know that u can't do it anymore. but don't be rude & jump into different conclusions.
don't say rude crap once it's over, don't make the other person feel like complete crap either. bcos if u actually love them, u wouldn't intentionally hurt them just bcos u can. hearing harsh rude words from the one u love will break them more.
