honestly, the best piece of advice i can give to younger girls trying to figure out life is to completely ignore men.
i'm not being quirky or cute when I say that, i mean it seriously.
ignore mens' judgements of you, ignore their insincere compliments, ignore their half-assed romance.
focus on developing yourself.
practice your art, play sports, do theatre, volunteer,spend time with your friends, but do not put substantial effort into pleasing men.
they'll be there for you to pursue when the time comes and if you want to.
but nothing will waste your youth more than fighting for male acceptance
- unknown
