Simple Things Worth to Learn in Life

To Compare

whatever the case is, do not compare yourself to others.

You might have read it somewhere that you must have confident in yourself, be proud.

But you might never knew or realized that you often compare yourself to your friends whom talking about their problems such as;

Your friend was having a problem with his/her girlfriend/boyfriend, and it was something simple which always happened to every couple in the world or when you know your friend's lover never sent any flowers or giftcard and your friend actually never mind it. You listened to it but then your respond was, "Omg, my boyfriend/girlfriend would never do that to me! Don't be sad, you have friends who care about you!" or something like, "how could he/she never sent any flowers or any gift to you?"

Yes.
That's a wrong respond.
And a wrong question.

You might think you comfort them or maybe you are just curious, but the fact is you just make them feel worse. Even if it's true that your partner would never do the same thing to you, you need to remember that everyone has different life and every couple has different style of dating and loving.

Really, just don't compare yourself to other and vice versa.