whatever I feel like posting

~ unlearned ~

WARNING:  profanity

This isn't some bullshit I'll do first-
I don't believe women are all this and that over men and shit, I'm not a feminazi and such. I believe women should be treated as humans.

I believe a bra strap should not make a fucking married male staff member or make students uncomfortable. Most of all I do not believe that a bra strap should be fucking compared to a dick. Don't tell me "oh so if a bra strap is okay I should be able to walk around with my ---- out" no.

It means I don't want to be sexualized or seen as an object. I want to be comfortable with my own body instead of being told to cover my bra strap that I didn't even notice -_-

I want to feel okay to wear something and not be told I'm too chubby, don't have the right body shape or- this one is my favorite "giving the wrong idea"

I am a female. I am a person who deserves respect as much as any man, I deserve to be paid the same and I don't want- won't be told to smile and be quite.

Do you see me telling you to smile more or just shut up your only a man. No, have you learned to walk with your eyes open and listening. I'm told to only wear one earbud with the music not too loud in case a stranger comes up to me. I am warned to be warry of people too friendly, that I can't make a joke and not be judged for it because I'm a woman.

That I can't be alright with my body or my face and that I have to wear makeup to feel beautiful. Told to shave my legs when men talking around like a fricken mammoth ((I understand not all are like that- I appreciate those of you that shave)) and I hate period jokes.

I am in pain, I can't move sometimes and it hurts like a fucking battle wound. Thinking about something lewd doesn't suck that blood back into my f/cking body does it. I go to school like any other day and no one even knows I'm on it unless I say it but you know what. Every time you get mad you're told "guess who's on her period" and shit like that. When I'm told that I'm not even on my period more that 98% of the time. I'm human I expect to be treated like one.

I like to dress comfortably and I'll wear shorts and a tanktop if it's hot- oh well. I get A's and B's in my classes but when I do better than the guy next to me he's the one who's complimented and gets asked for help. It sucks and I don't like that because I'm female I'm forgotten and ignored.

I've learned to be quite and just keep to myself for those reasons and because I'm simply ignored because I'm quite. I like debating- I hate arguments because of the noise. If you yell at me I will shy away like any normal human being and that's about it. I've been catcalled ((not even old enough to drive and it was by an adult.)) so no it is not okay.

How would you like someone suddenly stopping and yelling at you "nice a$$ honey. I'd f/ck!" To you with friends in the car who laugh or have someone walk up to you and foddles you. People youdont know.

Having to be warry when you walk because you're alone and seen as something that can be targeted when you are.

I want to be treated like a human being and if someone is to do this I'm going to get mad. Get the f/ck over it. Imagine if you're daughter was catcalled, foddled by a random person told not to show her bra strap. Told her body size is too big or that the male staff and students have sexualized her. Imagine you're mother or sister. Imagine you're younger sister(/brother) running home crying and hiding in her room terrified of going back outside because you weren't there and she was seen as a target. Your wife sobbing because she's just been r--ed and the police say they don't do anything about it. Having to pay extra just to get a test to see if you weren't drunk ((this happens. You PAY to be told they can't do anything)).

Not so okay if you put it like that is it-
So I'm a feminist because it's not alright to treat another human like that...

The thing is too that men are raped too and go through hell as well in some cases. There are males who aren't like that genuinely (not just claiming it) and despite not being told and "molded" into what woman are in the mindset they also go through their struggles. I appologize if I made you think other wise...Sorry I got carried away in that but what I said it true...it's uncomfortable to hear but it happens.
It's not okay...that's all I have to say to finish this off. Bye