if you guys ever need like confidence or smth-
last thursday i had a band concert and since it was the last one, we were allowed to wear whatever fancy stuff we wanted
i just put on a short dress
but i wasn't feeling confident in it and i was getting all these thoughts that everyone would stare and say i didn't look niceand when my friend was coming to take me to the concert, i said "i can't do this" and started to take off my heels and put on dress pants
but i stopped
and i said "no, you look fine. no one will care. you look hot as fuck, jordan. it's the last concert, have fun."and i kept on the dress and heels and went to the concert
yeah i was uncomfortable when i got to the band room, but my friends and people i rarely talked to complimented the dress and that bad feeling went away so quickly
after a few minutes i completely forgot i was even wearing a dressso if you're ever feeling insecure about anything, don't be. in the long run, people won't care if your heels are old and scratched up or if your hair is in the same style it always is,
they'll just care about you.
:)